i just remembered where it went wrong originally let me know if this help on where to go next. I was at this step http://2xrsa.3ds.guide and didnt have the wifi on and it failed turned wifi on and it still didnt work. so I deleted my card (dumb ass move I know) then couldnt get it to boot back up then I added the back files from my working 2ds to it. Now im at the stage you have seen. yes I downloaded the 11.0.0.28u old