Xuphor: Mostly lies, some truth

[Blaze163]

I never believed you from the start anyway so I'm not really affected.
I'm now waiting for the thread where Blaze admits all his lies and finally come to terms with his "dying 3 times" ;O;

You do know I can read this, right?

 

[lafleche]

Please close this topic and don't give Xuphor some new forum thread to give him even more attention....

 

[the_randomizer]

Please close this topic and don't give Xuphor some new forum thread to give him even more attention....

You did read what TwinRetro said, right? "At this point, the attention is just a byproduct to the goal at hand, which is taking responsibility for his actions, and facing the community at large."

 

[JulietStMoon]

I really don't have anything to say, except that I forgive you. I'd be lying if I said I won't be skeptical of you for a while, but God knows I've done awful things myself (even if that aren't particularly similar to this awful thing), and yet I've been forgiven.

Also, I can't blame anyone else here for being incredibly angry, but to those people I will say this: Xuphor, the he formerly known as she, seriously lied in a really unacceptable way, yes. But he also came clean because the community here was worth it to him, in the end. That's gotta mean something.

 

[insidexdeath]

Well I may not be an active member here, but I comment sometimes here and there. When I saw your very first thread personally, I didn't believe you at first and then I started reading the comments on this thread and some apparent confirmations that's when I believed it at least partially because the Internet and forums in general are full of twisted fucks who're full of lies. I don't think I owe you any forgiving since I didn't even pay attention to it much. When the fake sister made an entering in this forum and some lies started to be made up eventually I knew this whole thing was a lie.

Good luck in life, but remember what you've done whether you're seeking forgiveness from people or not THIS will haunt you forever and will always be part of you.

 

[lafleche]

You did read what TwinRetro said, right? "At this point, the attention is just a byproduct to the goal at hand, which is taking responsibility for his actions, and facing the community at large."

Yes I can read! Let us agree to disagree then.

 

[Forstride]

He came clean because he realized he couldn't keep up the stunt any longer. Otherwise it just would've kept going until he was "out of surgery," and we would've all believed it and gave him even more attention. Luckily there are people who don't blindly believe every sob story on the internet, and were able to point out holes in Xuphor's story, leading to him being questioned by staff, and eventually being banned.

Even though he apologized, it still doesn't make it right. He should honestly just be banned and forgotten about. You shouldn't be able to do this kind of shit and just get off the hook. If people can be banned for hosting fake contests, or even just petty trolling, why the fuck isn't Xuphor banned for sucking an entire community into his bullshit, attention-whoring hoax?

 

[chavosaur]

You do know I can read this, right?

I was hoping so.
When all this stuff kept coming up about Xuphor, I didn't believe it because I remembered your stories. I believed you at first as well until the stories became more and more... Crazy to say the least.
Maybe now you can follow Xuphors's example and AT LEAST provide some kind of proof to support any of your claims.

 

[Walker D]

(...) I told my wife, I told her friends, they told their friends, and it went on to the local church, an they were praying for you as well. I hope you realize that this hasn't just effected the members here of GBAtemp, your lies have spread through other elements of my life, and I'm sure of others as well. I knew something was up as soon as the mysterious benefactor came through, and the part about you coughing up blood as you were in chat with me? Classic. You should have won an Oscar for that performance.

I'm usually someone that forgives easily, but you crossed a line. If it was just a lie about you being a woman, or a lie about you being a Russian national (lol), that would be one thing. But you took your disease, a disease that people die of every year, because they can't afford a transplant, or can't find a donor in time, and turned it into a tool for attention and sympathy. You have shattered the trust of this site, and the trust of the Staff team. Furthermore, you have maimed the reliability of anyone that comes onto this forum that actually has a life threatening disease or condition. The fact that you didn't take anyone's money is comparable to a duck fart in a hurricane next to the lies you spun. You are a scumbag, an attention whore, and if my usergroup title were purple, I'd see you banned again in a heartbeat. You can call me heartless for the statement I made, but at least I would be in good company, right, Xuphor?

Yea.. forgiving Xuphor, understanding his side on this and trying to move on is one thing...

but seriously ...if all of this things that happened, that you could say that affected a at least whole community, are not reason enough for a Perma Ban, than well ...this forum has some other big problems...

(...) The website hosting the electronic card people signed was down for maintenance every time I attempted to access it, so as a result I never signed it. With this revelation I am now glad I did not. It's also fortunate that this was not a card which existed in any physical form either.

Because I would burn it.

Somewhat burning it is not that bad of a idea. It's pretty easy to delete the messages on that card. If someone here don't want his, now useless, message to be archived there, I recommend deleting it.

I don't know if the creator of the card has the power to delete it for good though.. Team Fail ?

 

[loco365]

Yea.. forgiving Xuphor, understanding his side on this and trying to move on is one thing...

but seriously ...if all of this things that happened, that you could say that affected a at least whole community, are not reason enough for a Perma Ban, than well ...this forum has some other big problems...





Somewhat burning it is not that bad of a idea. It's pretty easy to delete the messages on that card. If someone here don't want his, now useless, message to be archived there, I recommend deleting it.

I don't know if the creator of the card has the power to delete it for good though.. Team Fail ?

I can probably go and remove it. Since it no longer serves its purpose.

Edit: I've cancelled the delivery and I will be going through and pruning all the (what was heartfelt) messages. I can't seem to actually delete the card.

Edit 2: Done.

 

[insidexdeath]

This whole confession thing isn't really going to pass because at this point at least to me and judging from the comments here, they just won't view you the same and I'm pretty sure a lot of people will dislike you. I actually agree with Forstride if the lie kept on going on we would still see some more lies and we would never even find out the truth heck we don't even know whether in this thread he's telling the truth.

 

[retKHAAAN]

Well I think you've all learned a valuable lesson...

Don't believe anything, not one single thing, you read on the Internet.


I will go out on a bit of a limb for this weirdo, though, and say that anyone who posts in this forum on a daily basis is an attention whore. Y'all are just jealous someone did it better than you.

 

[Walker D]

Also, that "My parents really disowned me when I was 11 ish" talk ...yeah, would be sad if true, but I don't see any reason for people believing on this smelly talk right now..

This story has weird holes, the same way the other stories that were confirmed as lies had..

Just say'n

 

[ßleck]

Well I think you've all learned a valuable lesson...

Don't believe anything, not one single thing, you read on the Internet.

Not sure if I should believe this or not...

 

[omgpwn666]

I don't care, good luck with your disease though.

 

[Xarsah16]

I will go out on a bit of a limb for this weirdo, though, and say that anyone who posts in this forum on a daily basis is an attention whore. Y'all are just jealous someone did it better than you.

So because we are a community who like to chat every day about video games, modding, flash carts, and whatever else there is off topic, we are all attention whores?

I disagree. I have friends here I like chatting with. I like answering questions when I can. I don't usually talk about myself, unless I'm in a pm and it is part of the conversation.

You're missing the point of this thread completely, and any attention from this one is only a byproduct as TwinRetro said.

We get together socially on this forum and that's it. It's what all other forums do.

 

[Issac]

What Xuph did was dickish, but if he can better himself, why not give him another chance? I mean what does it hurt? If he tries something again, we can ignore it. If you have a personal problem with him after this, you can ignore him (with the ignore setting. you won't see him at all).

I'm all for giving second chances.

 

[DinohScene]

I read the entire thread just now and I can quote a ton of people but I'm not going to.
It's pretty hard reading the hateful comments about Xuph but some aren't even on topic at all.
Well that and people quoting others and taking it personally.

Anyway.
Xuph, once again.
I forgive you.
I just hope that you at one time PM me and that we can start being proper friends.

Like I said before, I all about giving people a second chance.

 

[Deleted member 319809]

Page 10 replier here, I know it's late but I just read the OP.

Xuphor In the OP, you publicly state that you are "a homosexual male who wishes [s/]he were female". I have a question about this. Since the statement is public, the following question is also public, but you can reply to me in PM if you think the reply would be too personal for the thread.

Do you consider that you wish you were female in order to ward off the stigma about homosexuality (being attracted to men as a woman being considered more normal than being attracted to men as a man), or do you just wish you were female?

There is a critical difference, and it affects how you think about yourself. In the first case, you haven't fully 'come out' to others or to yourself. In the second case, you may be transgender. In either case, you may get help for this, but it may be expensive and you already have your CF to deal with. Whether your CF is covered by some kind of insurance is up to you, and that insurance, if any, may also help there.

Good luck in the hospital. I have no hard feelings, and if you were dying, my message in your first thread would still apply.

 

[Lily]

So it's true then, all women on the internet really are men.