Got it working sort of I used the guide above to just install the homebrew channel with HackMii Installer v1.0 according to my currently installed menu (4.3U), I then created a NAND backup with Dump Mii NAND within the homebrew channel then I used a homebrew WAD manager called WiiMod that supported AHBPROT it installed the Nmenu.wad just fine, it crashed on first boot but so did the mii channel and it was installed from the wiimenu_changer.gcm running on my laptop after reboot everything was working great, Nmenu doesn't like SDHC so watch out for that, from the Nmenu it will allow me to install Devlopment WADs so I returned the system to stock by using the HackMii Installer v1.0 to uninstall the Homebrew channel again. This solved my problem of not wanting to mess with cIOS on my Ndev.