Warning! Love blog.

[Dizzy Doom]

Well, I'm new at blogging, and I found it apropiate to post this here, mainly because nobody I know would even think of visiting this site (It's a gamming/flashcart community, my friends don't play games, etc.)
Well, to the point. I love/like/howeveryyouwantocallit a girl. I actually have the balls to tell her (seriously, what's the deal with that?), but one of her friends told me both her and a close friend of her like me. I don't wanna break their frienship. I lost a good friend because of a girl, and, well, it sucks to lose a friend (And I mean a friend, not just someone you get along). No, really. It fucking hurts. At least that's what I feel, maybe it's because I'm not really a very sociable guy, I don't know. I'm not selfish enough to think only in myself and just go for it. Oh, and before you say/write "her friend won't care", yeah, she'll care.

What the fuck do I do to keep everyone happy, besides just forgetting about her, or being a jerk with her friend?
Maybe I should talk with them, or just hope nothing happens.
Also, forgive me for any grammar or spelling mistakes, I'm not really in a mood to go grammar nazi on my posts/blogs/w-e.

 

[yuyuyup]

can't please everyone, especially women cause they're ape shit insane

 

[ufotrash]

can't please everyone, especially women cause they're ape shit insane

Aww c'mon that last bit isn't necessary.

But yeah dude, as long as you're trying to make everyone happy you're gonna have a problem.
And besides you like the girl, just fucking go for it. The friend likes you too, but so what...you don't like her back and she's gonna have to deal with that fact.
No offense to you at all, but there certainly must be other guys out there and she's gotta see that you aren't the only guy she can like...and if she turns catty over the fact that you are going out with her friend and breaks off the friendship with her then really, she's the bigger jerk and that totally isn't your fault. I mean, if they were such good friends she wouldn't let SOME GUY ruined their friendship, you know?

So what you gotta decide is whether this girl you like is worth the drama or not, since it seems you're hinting that this friend is gonna start shit if you guys end up going out.

 

[Guild McCommunist]

One word: polygamy.

You're just crawlin' in the ladies though. Well, in all honesty, I don't think it'll tear them apart. Keep both of them at a close proximity though so they know that you're close to both.

 

[bnwchbammer]

You're bound to get a huge variety of responses for this.
I'd say, do it.
Here's a story of mine:
I went out with a girl
She broke up with me
I went out with her best friend a while later
She hated me

Moral of the story:
There's either an unhappy you, or an unhappy them.
Figure out which one you want.

Sure it sounds kinda selfish, but hey, it's your life.
Good luck either way.

 

[saxamo]

can't please everyone, especially women cause they're ape shit insane

LOL!

You must be some stud brotha.

 

[yuyuyup]

nah I'm just being an asshole cause girls scare the shit outta me

 

[Raika]

Can't please everyone. Just do what your heart tells you to, you can't force love. If their "friendship" is strong then they'll continue being friends and accept the result. If they stop being friends then their "friendship" is nothing but jack shit.

 

[Ritsuki]

One word: polygamy.

You're just crawlin' in the ladies though. Well, in all honesty, I don't think it'll tear them apart. Keep both of them at a close proximity though so they know that you're close to both.

That's the only true solution, man

 

[ProtoKun7]

one of her friends told me both her and a close friend of her like me.

Dang. You've got two up on me.

 

[Berthenk]

Sure it sounds kinda selfish, but hey, it's your life.
He's right. Do whatever you want with your life, it's your choice! I don't think drowning in women is a good thing...

Anyway... since we all already know life sucks, get the best out of it! Living is an exclusive right that might end unexpectedly, so you've got to make the best of it.

QUOTE(bnwchbammer @ May 21 2010, 05:57 AM) Moral of the story:
There's either an unhappy you, or an unhappy them.

However, you or they will get over it, so do take whichever you want!

 

[DarkWay]

Well..
You like this girl and this girl likes you back but one of her close friends likes you too.

If you like this girl don't hang around waiting because of another girl. Get together with the girl you like, and let the other girl know (but only if she makes it known to you) that your flattered but you just don't feel that way.

This is really the only thing you can do to try and keep everyone "happy" in a sense.

 

[Veho]

Two words: threesome.

Seriously now. Just go for the girl you like, and no fooling around with the other one, and there will be no problems.