At what point does that fertilised egg that is a growing baby become a baby
Fetal viability is a good standard, since it comports with a woman's bodily autonomy rights. One thing I can tell you for sure is a single-celled zygote should have zero rights, and to say otherwise is religious dogma being forced onto others.
Nobody can stop a women going to a place where abortion is legal - you can have the abortion there
Socioeconomic inequalities might be able to stop a woman from doing that. Your argument seems to be coming from a place of extreme privilege that lacks any real common sense about how the real world works.
or you can just not have sex
A human's sex drive, generally, is a biological drive comparable to the drive for food or water. Telling someone to just "not have sex" generally doesn't work, and telling someone to "just not have sex" demonstrates a fundamental misunderstanding of sexuality and sex.
Good idea, but it's not readily available to everybody in every location, and sex education in this country is horrible. Right-wing politicians are also doing what they can to make contraception harder to get, if not outright illegal to get.
Right-wing politicians are making this illegal in places where they haven't already done so. It also isn't readily available to everyone, and there's a narrow time window to use it.
What makes a person a person then? What is it about you tha's different from me, or your mum? Do you think nobody has a soul? or is it something else that makes people different - if so what do you call that. If someone you love dies why are you upset?
Human cognition, sapience, and consciousness. Nothing else matters.
Whether or not someone is a person with consciousness and sapience is also irrelevant to whether or not abortion should be legal. I am a human, and you should still be able to use your right to bodily autonomy to not have to donate a kidney to save me.
If you don't have the money to go and visit another state - you really shouldn't be putting yourself in a position where you have unprotected sex
See my above comments on how that's easier said than done. Also, perhaps the people who don't have the money to visit or move to another state shouldn't be forced by the dystopian right-wing state to carry a pregnancy to term, particular when the aforementioned society doesn't offer health care, maternity leave, childcare, etc.
and if you do you should take the pill, the morning after pill and make sure the person you're having sex with is wearing a condom.
See above.
So if you are a murderer and you murder an 8 month pregnant woman, in a civilised country you are murdering an unborn child and a woman - is this not the case, or do you only class the women as the one that would have been murdered and the child didn't matter because it wasn't born yet?
A fetus in this example is passed the point of fetal viability, so for all intents and purposes, it can be considered a baby. If I cause bodily harm to a 2-month pregnant woman and she miscarries, that matters because of what the pregnancy meant to the woman and her family, not because the embryo was a person.