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(Warning, this question is kind of incoherent because I just wrote all the things that came into me but I would really appreciate some answers:-) )

Hi,



======Does she like me part?======

There is this girl where I seem to have a kind of connection with. She is happy when I say hi but never iniates contact it and always looks down when I walk by (like she is embarrassed or something).
We haven´t really had the change to talk mostly because I´m a. either too shy or b. she is gone to a diffrent class

Does it mean something when she is appearing to read a book but is secretly paying attention to what you are saying. I had that a while ago when a friend of mine was guessing the name of a video game, she suddenly looked up from her book and told us it was called Cannabalt. Is this what I make it out to be?

She also changed her appearance last couple of weeks (she was kind of a tomboy but has completely changed and is now wearing make-up, wears earrings, straightens her hair and is wearing heels. Do you think this means something?

I also see her look at me sometimes although this has became less frequently, does that have a meaning?



======Ask her out part======

Do you think it is a good idea to just get it over with instead of trying to become friends? A mutual friend of ours did that and tried to make a move but got shot down (she has a lot of guy friends).

I was think it would be a good idea to go to her house and just tell her that while we don't know each other that well, I want to get to know her better in the form of a date and that I liked her for a long while. Should I bring roses/chocolates or nothing at all?

One last thing, a mutual friend of ours told me that she isn´t really looking to date as she was too busy focussing on school.
He said that she would probably say no even though she likes the guy (purely because of school).
Should I still go and ask?
 
You should do it even if you have doubts, because its better to take the risk than to wonder what could have been.


edit: looking down is generally a good sign if it's done whilst you're making eye contact with her.
 
Law said:
You should do it even if you have doubts, because its better to take the risk than to wonder what could have been.


edit: looking down is generally a good sign if it's done whilst you're making eye contact with her.
Yeah I know but I don't want to screw it up :-)

Only problem is she is kind of giving me mixed signals (one day she super nice but the next she is just semi ignoring me)
 
CasperH said:
Law said:
You should do it even if you have doubts, because its better to take the risk than to wonder what could have been.


edit: looking down is generally a good sign if it's done whilst you're making eye contact with her.
Yeah I know but I don't want to screw it up :-)

Only problem is she is kind of giving me mixed signals (one day she super nice but the next she is just semi ignoring me)
Teenagers, bleh. Hell, Law is correct. Wondering what could have been is worse than taking the plunge.
 
I'm really not the best at this, but I'm going out with the girl I liked for a long time now. I started to like her in about June, and only asked her out two weeks ago. In that time, she went out with another guy and I got really upset, etc. So even though it's working out in the end, I regret waiting so long, especially since she told me she liked me at the same time as I liked her. It does sound like this girl likes you, so don't wait around, nothing good will come of it. Ask her out at school, or wherever you see her often. Don't make it a big deal with flowers or chocolate, that will put too much pressure on her. Just ask her face to face, from what you say she'll probably say yes! Good luck!
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Just one question, do you guys think it is a better idea to do it on valentine's day (since it's coming up soon, I think I can wait that long) or before/after?
 
I personally think the sooner the better, plus if she says yes and the date goes well, then it won't be akward getting her something for Vday because it won't be random.
 
tagzard said:
marry this girl
Will do, you all can expect the invitations soon!
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I could also suprise her by letting someone from school delivering a rose, is that too much?
 

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