Coming Out Experiences

[Nakamichi]

When i was 14 or 15 and had my first ever boyfriend, i tried explaining it to my mother.
I came out to her and told her that im Bisexual.
She got really angry and told me "That doesnt exist, thats only something perverts say so they can have more sex"
i still remember exactly how she said it.
her intonation, too. Vile Bile. Pure poison.

I know her views have changed since those days, but ive never discussed it with her ever again.

 

[The Catboy]

My family has always been rather accepting and even happy to hear when someone comes out. When I came out, my family was like, "Glad you found yourself," and they were happy to meet any partner I brought home.

 

[Nakamichi]

My family has always been rather accepting and even happy to hear when someone comes out. When I came out, my family was like, "Glad you found yourself," and they were happy to meet any partner I brought home.

thats awesome!
im glad to hear it!

 

[MarcFerguson]

When i was 14 or 15 and had my first ever boyfriend, i tried explaining it to my mother.
I came out to her and told her that im Bisexual.
She got really angry and told me "That doesnt exist, thats only something perverts say so they can have more sex"
i still remember exactly how she said it.
her intonation, too. Vile Bile. Pure poison.

I know her views have changed since those days, but ive never discussed it with her ever again.

I’m really sorry that happened to you. Opening up at that age takes courage, and her reaction was hurtful and unfair. Even if her views have changed, it makes sense that those words stayed with you. Your identity is valid, and you deserved support.

 

[Lazyt]

deleted for personal reasons

 

[Nakamichi]

coming out is homophobic ..you might consider it hate, you may hate me as you like you want but i know what is right and what i was going though

what are you talking about? you know that words have MEANING right?
while legal, to string together any word in any order, is your perogative, that does NOT guarantee they actually make sense together, you understand that, right?

 

[AncientBoi]

Me... I'm the type that says I was Born GAY. Didn't like grils growing up, and still don't. I didn't openly cum come out, and people who knew me thought I was one of the rough guys. Had a secret BF in my teens though . Maybe that's how I lasted in 3 WW's and still gay. And when I got all done with that, I came out. That's when they went . In time, most left me , and others accepted .

And yes, I'm allot into the Male Appendage more than most, But hey, I'm ME.

Do Join OUR LGBTQIA Tempers thread.

 

[Nakamichi]

Me... I'm the type that says I was Born GAY. Didn't like grils growing up, and still don't. I didn't openly cum come out, and people who knew me thought I was one of the rough guys. Had a secret BF in my teens though . Maybe that's how I lasted in 3 WW's and still gay. And when I got all done with that, I came out. That's when they went . In time, most left me , and others accepted .

And yes, I'm allot into the Male Appendage more than most, But hey, I'm ME.

Do Join OUR LGBTQIA Tempers thread.

id be careful about EVER coming out!
i heard on this forum thats homophobic.

jokes aside, link me to the thread?

 

[AncientBoi]

id be careful about EVER coming out!
i heard on this forum thats homophobic.

jokes aside, link me to the thread?

https://gbatemp.net/forums/lgbtqia-tempers.312/

Done

 

[The Catboy]

id be careful about EVER coming out!
i heard on this forum thats homophobic.

jokes aside, link me to the thread?

I QUICKLY BECAME HOMOPHOBIC! HATING GAY PEOPLE BECAME PART OF MY LIFE!

 

[Nakamichi]

I QUICKLY BECAME HOMOPHOBIC! HATING GAY PEOPLE BECAME PART OF MY LIFE!

ooh noooooooooo~~~~

 

[VinsCool]

Mods on this forum are biased, gay and transphobic, that goes without saying.

 

[The Catboy]

Mods on this forum are biased, gay and transphobic, that goes without saying.

Yet, I, The Catboy, the Uncle Ruckus of the Trans community is not a mod? How queer?

 

[Exnor]

When i was 14 or 15 and had my first ever boyfriend, i tried explaining it to my mother.
I came out to her and told her that im Bisexual.
She got really angry and told me "That doesnt exist, thats only something perverts say so they can have more sex"
i still remember exactly how she said it.
her intonation, too. Vile Bile. Pure poison.

I know her views have changed since those days, but ive never discussed it with her ever again.

That is some POS mentality your mom got there.

Be yourself, try to be happy and if your "mom" does not like it that's her problem.

I really do not get homophobia. As a cis hetero male, i don't get the hate others have about other peoples sexuality. Who the fuck cares who fucks who? As long is consensual and not with children, what is the problem?

 

[Nakamichi]

That is some POS mentality your mom got there.

Be yourself, try to be happy and if your "mom" does not like it that's her problem.

I really do not get homophobia. As a cis hetero male, i don't get the hate others have about other peoples sexuality. Who the fuck cares who fucks who? As long is consensual and not with children, what is the problem?

i honestly dont know.
a lot of strangers care a lot more about my sex-life than i do.

 

[hippy dave]

i honestly dont know.
a lot of strangers care a lot more about my sex-life than i do.

Time for an OnlyFans?

 

[Nakamichi]

Time for an OnlyFans?

that would be a shitshow, literally NO ONE would want that.

 

[TVL]

When i was 14 or 15 and had my first ever boyfriend, i tried explaining it to my mother.
I came out to her and told her that im Bisexual.
She got really angry and told me "That doesnt exist, thats only something perverts say so they can have more sex"
i still remember exactly how she said it.
her intonation, too. Vile Bile. Pure poison.

I know her views have changed since those days, but ive never discussed it with her ever again.

That must be a tough thing for your own parent(s) to not be accepting. On the plus side, has to be pretty great to be a homosexual man, I think unless you get shunned by family or harassed in school it's gonna be a good time.

Maybe I have a warped sense of it, I don't really know what it's like. I just know that living with women there will always be a lot of nagging and finding fault in whatever situation you're in... eventually. I just don't think men are conditioned in that way, anyone can find bad things if you look for it, but why would you, unless you want to make yourself and everyone around you miserable. Maybe that's just the kind of women I attracted however, and I personally feel that it's always worked out great as long as you don't live together.

Anyway... I think there is a reason it's called being gay.

 

[Nakamichi]

That must be a tough thing for your own parent(s) to not be accepting. On the plus side, has to be pretty great to be a homosexual man, I think unless you get shunned by family or harassed in school it's gonna be a good time.

Maybe I have a warped sense of it, I don't really know what it's like. I just know that living with women there will always be a lot of nagging and finding fault in whatever situation you're in... eventually. I just don't think men are conditioned in that way, anyone can find bad things if you look for it, but why would you, unless you want to make yourself and everyone around you miserable. Maybe that's just the kind of women I attracted however, and I personally feel that it's always worked out great as long as you don't live together.

Anyway... I think there is a reason it's called being gay.

im bi and it really sucked. when i told my first girlfriend she instantly dropped me and then badmouthed me for it in school.
i lucked out by being more popular than she is, i just said shes a "lying bitch" and people believed me.

yeah... none of that was pleasant.

 

[AncientBoi]

All in all [and looking at your posted age], It's all in the "Past". Move n and Enjy life , rather than re-living the past.