I'm Telling Her

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good luck dude
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To be honest, the legend about the dreadful "Friend Zone" is false.
You can graduate from the Friend Zone.
I've done it twice!

And once, it was quite interesting...
I wanted to date a girl, she thought of me as her best buddy.
I got to know her REALLY well, to the point where I noticed those little quirks of personality that kinda ticked me off.
In the end, I stopped loving her, and really became her friend.

She told me she liked me maybe a month after that point. We kinda "missed" the perfect time for "us" to happen.
 
Rock Raiyu said:
Alright, I'll tell you what happened.

I went over to her house and we were outside, we talked for a bit about school and then I told her everything. I complimented her, I told her what I liked about her, etc. She then proceeded to tell me that she was flattered and shocked that I liked her. She told me she thought I was out of her league and that she was trying to work her way up to where I'm at. She said there aren't many guys like me out there, lots of them are dogs. (Sorry guys.) She said considers me her closest (guy) friend. And that's pretty much how it went. I'm not upset or depressed cause I feel there is still hope. I guess playing Phoenix Wright games comes in handy because I noticed lots of things about her during our conversation:

1. She was playing with her hair a lot, and I mean ALOT, while we were talking. Like she was nervous.
2. I asked her a couple of times how she felt but she dodged the question like she was hiding something from me.
3. She told me to not take it as a rejection
4. My friend, who spoke with her, told me she does indeed like me. At first I thought he was lying about it but he was very serious about it.

I dunno maybe I'm looking into this too much but I think she may like me but she's shy about it herself. So I'm just going to keep talking to her and see what happens from there.

But if anyone wants to see a picture of her, here's a picture of us with our Orchestra classmates last Thursday at our final concert. She is tall one in the middle with the black dress. I'm the guy in the back, without the glasses. Sorry for the blurriness.

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Well seems it was a brave move so I commend you for that. However from my experience with women usually getting confrontational with them drives them batty nervous and the end result can turn out disasterous. If it was me, I'd just let it play its course and see where it goes rather than putting it out front. But it is cool that she will still hang out with you and be friends and stuff. And that seems like all is well man. So I'm not saying you messed up or anything don't take it the wrong way. Every girl's mind is going to be a little different in how she handles things and most people kinda move forward and eventually you can have the chance with this girl still so it is fine. Also you gotta remmeber too that part of the word "girlfriend" if this is what you are after is "friend" so staying friends with her and hanging out is a good way to approach it and just keep going and being friends. And if it turns out to be friends only that is cool too because it is always good to have friends as well and things can even work out later on too. I know it is hard to stop thinking and having a rush of thoughts about this kind of subject but a lot of people go through it and it is normal. When you are hanging out with the girl you should be a bit more at ease and it will take the tension off your thoughts. So yeah just keep hanging out with her as usual man it sounds fine to me.
 
Guild McCommunist said:
For serious, I never would've thought you were black. Don't take that the wrong way, but I imagine 99% of GBAtempers as nerdy white kids. No offense.

Haha me too, (no offense either)
Wouldn't it be funny if every Temper thought that way?
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Sonicslasher said:
Overlord Nadrian said:
Potticus said:
WAIT!

He's black?
I've known about that for ages. Why are you so shocked? dice is black too. And xcalibur. And probably a bunch of others too.
dice and xcalibur did a duo cover edition for "Men's Sexiest"

True story!
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Links!
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Rock Raiyu said:
I feel I need to talk to her...I think she is holding back from me. I just have this nagging feeling...

hmm i suggest you keep talking to her like you did before and see what happens if see seems reclusive give her some space, she might like you but she's probably still overwhelmed with it as anyone would
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GO ROCK!
 
vergilite said:
Rock Raiyu said:
I feel I need to talk to her...I think she is holding back from me. I just have this nagging feeling...

hmm i suggest you keep talking to her like you did before and see what happens if see seems reclusive give her some space, she might like you but she's probably still overwhelmed with it as anyone would
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GO ROCK!
That's probably true. She probably is shocked about it. I guess I'll do just that then.
 

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