The perfect spouse is a 50%
Half the time SHE rips off YOUR clothes and screws you like a horny animal.
Half the time SHE buys YOU a snack.
Half the time SHE takes YOU out to lunch.
Half the time SHE takes YOU to a movie.
Half the time SHE wants to play a game together.
I think you are getting to see the idea.
But the trick is, YOU have to be the other 50%
Half the time YOU have to half a bubble bath already poured and YOU have to want to give her an erotic massage.
YOU have to buy her the snack half the time.
YOU have to take her out to lunch half the time.
YOU have to take her out to the movie half the time.
YOU have to spend time doing something SHE wants to do together.
It's not easy.
There's lots of cliche expectations in a spouse. Looks, wealth, occupation.
We all get old, and old means less than pinip grade soon enough. You never have enough money, get over that reality. And jobs, well you marry the person, not their job.
Housework, that's for both, you don't marry a maid or a butler.
Parenting, it's not woman's work raising children. The male does all the male work in parenting. And there's plenty of it.
Your spouse isn't you, so they don't have to like your authors, your films, your games, your music. But they should at least know what yours are. You better know theirs too.
The perfect spouse should be willing to do some of your crazy ass shit. But, just keep in mind, you have to be into some of their crazy ass shit.
My wife has gone along with some of my ideas I thought for sure she wasn't going to do