i order from realhotstuff.com on the 27th so i put in my adress and then i asked my mom to use her CC and the billing adress has hers but i did not see i put it in has a check or money order... so she sent on the check. the website got the check on the first and i don't know if they cashed it or not it's the 13th and the order is still Processing... is that normal? i have waited almost 3 weeks and nothing has gone anywhere... what should i do.