Is anyone willing to use their gateway on a game that's just collecting dust and rip the header from it and inbox me with it? I'm a poor little baby with no gateway so I can't do it myself. I just want to play my roms online without getting banned 

A brand new game is not the problem, I have several already. I'm running on a Japanese import New 3DS (not XL) so it came with 9.5 already installed so I can't even run a gateway to dump a game. Really, any help would be appreciated.
Didn't the JAP n3ds ship with 8.1? Did you buy it new?
No, I bought it used from someone. I system restored to load my own information on it, but it's still 9.5.
You can buy this, get it shipped to me and I'll dump its header for you.
http://www.ebay.com/itm/161313719947?_trksid=p2059210.m2749.l2649&ssPageName=STRK:MEBIDX:IT
Or you can send me one of your original cards and give $2 for return shipping and I'll dump the header for you.