Evening

[TwoBladedKnight]

*sigh*
I hate my life at the moment, I hate where it's at... Sure, I've finally got a grilfriend after a two year drought, she's the one I've wanted since I first met her... I feel like I'm failing though, We've been going out for two weeks tomorrow, I still havent kissed her (I'm too nervous), she talks about her life problems to my friend more than she does to me, which makes me kinda sad

I also hate my home life, I hate my mum's fiance, I refuse to call him dad or my step dad, when he starts acting like my dad then maybe I'll call him dad, I don't know, I just hate him, he constantly pisses me off... I really want to find somewhere else to live... I just don't know what to do at the moment...

I'm over school, I honestly just feel like dropping out right now to be honest... The only reason I'm even still at school is because if I wasnt I'd have almost no contact with my girlfriend, and because I don't want to disappoint my mum by dropping out...

I just really hate where my life is at the moment, any advice?

 

[emigre]

Take a deep breath. Firstly how old are you? It'll just help knowing what stage of teenagedom you're at.

Any consolation, I hated school when I was younger. It was just a complete waste of time. Get your head down, get the qualifications you need and than get out of there. RE: GF- Always use a condom. We don't want any little surprises.

 

[Edgedancer]

Just curious but what age are you? In regards to the grilfriend issue, I would say that it would be a mistake to rush it. Try to start the conversations and make sure she knows taht she can open up to you. As for step-family, I know what you are going through but try to stick it out. there will always be friction but it will eventually start to dissapear and you will be able to appreciate them as a person. Just remember, no one can force you to call him Dad.

 

[TwoBladedKnight]

I'm 17 and a half, I found out I failed my chemistry test today, 33% seriously considering dropping out of school at the moment, I'm scared of losing my girlfriend, it terrifies me, she dumed me a few years ago cos 'we weren't going anywhere' it wasn't serious then, I guess I only went ut with her for the sake of having a grilfriend, I now realise how idiotic that was, I can honestly say that I wanna spend the rest of my time with her, she makes my life complete, even before we were going out we were close friends, I've always loved her though, have for about 2 years, just been too chicken to say anything

 

[ReDevil]

Asking nerds for romantic help? Well, okay then. Just like those before said, chill out, dont rush stuff. I know you think your madly in love, and want to spend your life with her, but keep a level head man. Your not all the way to being an adult yet. I know you think at 18 you will be an adult, but thats not really how it works. Now I am only 25, but I have an almost 5 year old daughter, and 18 year old brother. I see some of the stuff my brother does for his GF, ad its nuts, stuff that at 25 I would never do. Just skipping work to hangout with her even tho he will she her later that night. He also dropped out of school, and he has had the hardest time trying to get a job, and get a GED. He just does under the table jobs for his landlord to help pay for his room. I was letting him live with me for almost a year. I have my own place, 3 cars, and I finished highschool. Now Im not saying everyone needs to goto college, but every one NEEDs to finish highschool. Just stick with it man, stuff changes. Im in a wheelchair currently, I will be out of it soon, but Im just saying, stuff can change QUICK sometimes. -Red


Sry for the book, lol. But I feel really strongly about kids finishing HS.

 

[zeromac]

Pro-tip: Grow some balls and toughen up emo, everyone goes through rough patches in life

 

[TwoBladedKnight]

Sorry about al the depressive stuff >.> I was like uber depressed when I wrote that all... I'm feeling much better now, got my friends party tomorrow