Do you like your life situation?

[Neo127]

Be me.
A trainee in IT that hates his company and everyone there.
Get home and be completely dead inside, cause he gets yelled at the work 24/7 and his parents just separated.
But hey. Just 5-6 more months till I finish my education and can work at a better company.
GG ^^

Btw. I just noticed that my age is +10 on this site ._.

 

[Budsixz]

Be me.
A trainee in IT that hates his company and everyone there.
Get home and be completely dead inside, cause he gets yelled at the work 24/7 and his parents just separated.
But hey. Just 5-6 more months till I finish my education and can work at a better company.
GG ^^

Btw. I just noticed that my age is +10 on this side ._.

hang in there buddy

 

[eyeliner]

Family-wise? Absolutely. Great wife that for some reason loves me and thinks I'm the best man for her in the whole world (I try make her believe that every day, so I think I'm mostly safe). Two great kids that do whatever they want from me. Messy house that gives way too much work.

Professionally, I want a bit better, but I'm restarting studies coming the 23rd.

But, sometimes remains of my depression creep in and I have a bit of a hard time dealing with it. Dying comes to mind way too often. But, I have way too many reasons to live, now. Dying ain't in my horizon, but I might let you know beforehand, yes? Love, y'all.

Also, you are all amazing, and I like to share the world with you.

 

[Neo127]

hang in there buddy

Thx. ^^
Have a great day

 

[Jiehfeng]

"Do you like your life situation?"

I'd say more than 90% of the population would say no. To say yes means you hit the very top, is there really a top? There's always room for growth and improvement. But going more technically into the question, I guess there's a point where you start "liking" it.

 

[Neo127]

Well look at that.
Just as everything went good for some days, I got "semi" fired from my job.
My instructor said, that I am fired. I had time until the 26 to improve and stay, but it is very unlikely that I could change me so much to have any chance.
Fuck my life.

 

[Glyptofane]

I hate my life. I just want to make music and play keyboard, but I have this shitty fucking job at the TV station. The one thing I enjoy is my wife and son. Family is good, but she is always coming up with the schemes to punish me and waste my money.

 

[Alexander1970]

I hate my life. I just want to make music and play keyboard, but I have this shitty fucking job at the TV station. The one thing I enjoy is my wife and son. Family is good, but she is always coming up with the schemes to punish me and waste my money.

Hello.

That is always a cruel Thing: to have a Job you do no like.
Maybe it is time to "change" some "things" in your life ?

 

[Glyptofane]

Hello.

That is always a cruel Thing: to have a Job you do no like.
Maybe it is time to "change" some "things" in your life ?

I can't. My boss loves me, thinks I am his best friend. He's good, don't get me wrong, just not complete with the racist stuff.

 

[Jiehfeng]

I can't. My boss loves me, thinks I am his best friend. He's good, don't get me wrong, just not complete with the racist stuff.

While that seems nice of you, I feel everyone in this world needs a certain level of selfishness, compromises like that aren't a good way to live.

 

[Glyptofane]

While that seems nice of you, I feel everyone in this world needs a certain level of selfishness, compromises like that aren't a good way to live.

Sorry, I must have framed him as the ghoul. It's me.

 

[Reynardine]

My life is a bit of a mess, but I try to make the best of it. Complaining is useless, it doesn't make things better.

 

[Alexander1970]

My life is a bit of a mess, but I try to make the best of it. Complaining is useless, it doesn't make things better.

That is a commendable attitude,my Friend.

 

[VinsCool]

My life is a bit of a mess, but I try to make the best of it. Complaining is useless, it doesn't make things better.

I wish more people had this mindset.

 

[Issac]

I am not happy with my life situation. And yes, some people have it worse, blah blah blah, doesn't change the fact that I am not personally happy where I am in life right now.

Why am I not happy? Well, I am somewhat depressed (no clinical diagnosis, but it would explain a lot of symptoms), stressed and anxious. I need to sort out a few things in my life, and that is tough stuff.
Immigration stuff is a really shitty thing too, adding to previous stress and anxiousness.

So no. I'm not.

 

[VinsCool]

I am not happy with my life situation. And yes, some people have it worse, blah blah blah, doesn't change the fact that I am not personally happy where I am in life right now.

Exactly! This is pretty much how I could put it myself.

 

[Alexander1970]

I am not happy with my life situation. And yes, some people have it worse, blah blah blah, doesn't change the fact that I am not personally happy where I am in life right now.

Why am I not happy? Well, I am somewhat depressed (no clinical diagnosis, but it would explain a lot of symptoms), stressed and anxious. I need to sort out a few things in my life, and that is tough stuff.
Immigration stuff is a really shitty thing too, adding to previous stress and anxiousness.

So no. I'm not.

Maybe it helps you,to try remembering a little about your nice travel,if you have an other "shitty" moment.

I traveled to the other side of the world to meet my significant other this August. It was magical!

 

[Budsixz]

Well look at that.
Just as everything went good for some days, I got "semi" fired from my job.
My instructor said, that I am fired. I had time until the 26 to improve and stay, but it is very unlikely that I could change me so much to have any chance.
Fuck my life.

Awww man sorry to hear that. Try your best and don't lose heart. Give it your all in the time left and I hope you get to keep your job

 

[Issac]

Maybe it helps you,to try remembering a little about your nice travel,if you have an other "shitty" moment.

Yeah, that makes my heart warm and fuzzy. But that's also a big part of the bad feeling about my life situation. To be able to take things further with her, I'll have to get out of my current life situation and that's why I'm not happy with it
I need a new job, and a new place to live, and a lot of stuff to be able to deal with immigrations. Then it's a waiting game, up to 2 years, before you get a decision if you get residency or not. So it's a crappy feeling,.

 

[Budsixz]

I can't. My boss loves me, thinks I am his best friend. He's good, don't get me wrong, just not complete with the racist stuff.

Sometimes even when both sides are not at fault it could be that things just won't work the way they are.
Being stressed at job is common but there is a limit after which it affects you on a personal level. At that point you should really consider a job switch
As for your family situation I am in no position to comment on that but I can say that proper communication and patience helps to solve many relationship issues so maybe start there

 

[1NOOB]

my now ex of a 5yrs relationship decided tho go full on lesbian . so yeah just before my week off of work ... been pretty much sleep,eat,play games, probably gonna be the same once i get back to work . i have no friend no familly . pretty sad . gonna go toke .

Little update ; just out of the hospital. I kinda told my ex i was gonna od at my next pay friday , so she called the cops , they come while i was going to sleep(i work night shift) (shes in montreal for the week end not even present while this happen )get woken up by the cops who want to enter the appartment . I said no you need a valid reason , so they go on we beleive you may be a danger to yourself. So you let us enter or we use the force . So the force it is i said . After a good brawl i give up once they call a third guy and anyway i was just doing that for my own amusment . They put the coffs and bring me in the car while waiting for an ambulance to take me to the hospital where i wasted my last day off for nothing but blabla that got nowhere . They released me at the end of the day .i come back to sleep ,. I wake up pick up stuffs. My ex is back and now she tell me i have 2 months to get someplace else since evrething is at her name , app ,phone ,internet . I have a bunch of stuff idk where to go what to do , i really dont feel like working. Im at total lost right now . I dont see any objective worth of it everything is meaningless and the efforts i would have too do way to big for me .