thanks tj...it was my gear, i was using an old usb 2.0 enclosure (prolly the first one ever made) and an old 80 gig wd hdd that i bought for my xbox back in 2002.
needless to say i spent the last two days trying to make this work...it didnt.
I went out and bought a 320 gig wd essentials usb 2.0 my book external hdd from staples for $110...wii picked it up right away and formatted the drive.
we pay around $75 + up here for good games so $110 for a device that can hold a couple hundred games is a wise investment.
moral of the story...dont be cheap like me and buy the proper gear.