Bestfriend, Meth

[Vulpes Abnocto]

Meth often seems like it's under control, in the beginning.

 

[Vidboy10]

Sigh...
I don't know why people take heroine, meth, crack, cocaine, etc.
I mean, majiuana makes sence but these other drugs I listed don't help you in ANY WAY.

 

[redact]

Lot's of bad advice in this thread, IMHO. You intervening will get you nothing. You will just lose a friend for sure. It's not the nice thing to do, it's the stupid thing to do. Your friend is not only doing drugs because he likes them, but also because that opens a lot of possibilities, socially. You get to know a lot of pretty cool people that way. Don't believe he'll give that up just because you say you're his friend and you show him some ridiculous pictures.

A lot of people are going through this phase. He'll wake up sometime and realize that all he did was wasting time. If he doesn't he's a shithead not worth caring for.

I say: stay in touch. Don't ditch him. Get to know his new friends. Be there sober when they use. But don't be a pain in the ass. So far everything seems under control and as long as it stays that way I don't see a problem. It's just growing up.

really? i only see one person giving horrible advice...

 

[Hells Malice]

Lot's of bad advice in this thread, IMHO. You intervening will get you nothing. You will just lose a friend for sure. It's not the nice thing to do, it's the stupid thing to do. Your friend is not only doing drugs because he likes them, but also because that opens a lot of possibilities, socially. You get to know a lot of pretty cool people that way. Don't believe he'll give that up just because you say you're his friend and you show him some ridiculous pictures.

A lot of people are going through this phase. He'll wake up sometime and realize that all he did was wasting time. If he doesn't he's a shithead not worth caring for.

I say: stay in touch. Don't ditch him. Get to know his new friends. Be there sober when they use. But don't be a pain in the ass. So far everything seems under control and as long as it stays that way I don't see a problem. It's just growing up.

really? i only see one person giving horrible advice...

This a thousand times over.

 

[jan777]

Lot's of bad advice in this thread, IMHO. You intervening will get you nothing. You will just lose a friend for sure. It's not the nice thing to do, it's the stupid thing to do. Your friend is not only doing drugs because he likes them, but also because that opens a lot of possibilities, socially. You get to know a lot of pretty cool people that way. Don't believe he'll give that up just because you say you're his friend and you show him some ridiculous pictures.

A lot of people are going through this phase. He'll wake up sometime and realize that all he did was wasting time. If he doesn't he's a shithead not worth caring for.

I say: stay in touch. Don't ditch him. Get to know his new friends. Be there sober when they use. But don't be a pain in the ass. So far everything seems under control and as long as it stays that way I don't see a problem. It's just growing up.

I think this guy's high.

Anyways, @topic
You should get some real help for him. Something like a rehab or therapy.
Cause druggies often are addicted, no matter how much they want to stop, they cant.
same with fapping.

 

[smellyunicorn]

I talked to him last night and he didn't say much about what happened just that I "Guilt Tripped" him when I told him that when he did meth it hurt me. I see this a good sign because when I first told him in person he got very upset and said that we can't be friends because that is who he is and what he does.so the fact that he felt guilt says something, right?

 

[BobTheJoeBob]

He seems fine, but I don't know the other day I told him that seeing him doing meth really hurt me and he went on to say that we can't be friends because that is who he is..etc.

So his personality requires him to take drugs.....
At first I was like:

Then I was like:

 

[Canonbeat234]

Leave him alone, you is only going to be intertwined with him and drugs. No matter how much you don't want to do it, you can't save him! He's in denial and would only say stuff to get you to leave him alone. I repeat, leave him alone! If you was to go to the cops and ask about him, I bet you 100% he will say that you took some also.

If you don't leave him alone, you will end up just like him.

 

[ProtoKun7]

Couldn't there be a test or something he could take to show that there was none in his system if he claims that?

 

[Hells Malice]

Couldn't there be a test or something he could take to show that there was none in his system if he claims that?

Yes...yes there is. Beat is being a dork.

His friend could falsely accuse him if he got the cops on him, but it wouldn't do any good because a simple test would show he's clean.
Not to mention, like I said before, he could report his buddy to the cops anonymously. Would be real simple to phone up the cops and say there are people doing drugs at a party at "x" address.