A girl problem

[L_o_N_e_R]

OP?

original poster

aka the guy who made the thread

 

[Little]

Grrr.

Men are so stupid.

Why can't men learn to be just friends. Just a girl is nice to you, and friends with you and wants to spend time with you whether it be at a bar or coffee place or someones house, its not a sign for oh really i want you in my panties and im just saying no for fun.

You're friends. Nothing more. Get over your pathetic crush and be the friend that she clearly needs.

 

[Galacta]

don't get herpes

 

[BiscuitBee]

You're friends. Nothing more. Get over your pathetic crush and be the friend that she clearly needs.

Agreed.

Perhaps you can love her enough to just be her friend. But, at the same time, if you do suspect her of knowing you have a crush on her, don't bend over backwards for everything she asks for. We don't want to see you get hurt, also we don't want you to be "that guy" who is basically her boyfriend but doesn't get any of the action. (Sorry if that hit a bit too close to home to a few fellow readers

I know you can break free of her/his snare!)

After a while of being 'just friends', also depending on her personality, she might flirt with you to see if you do still like her. Resist it! I believe in you! (note: this doesn't always happen, of course)

Also, as much as I hate the term "damaged goods"... well, you know the rest of my comment.

 

[BORTZ]

You're friends. Nothing more. Get over your pathetic crush and be the friend that she clearly needs.

Agreed.

We don't want to see you get hurt, also we don't want you to be "that guy" who is basically her boyfriend but doesn't get any of the action. (Sorry if that hit a bit too close to home to a few fellow readers

I know you can break free of her/his snare!)

OUCH! been there, done that.
its ok dude. Its really hard to let go. I know.

 

[RayorDragonFall]

Someone that changes radically when they take drugs should be an instant NO.
Why? Because thats called being fucking unstable. Do you want some psycho in your life?
And btw, PMS doesn't happen every week, kthx?

 

[Canonbeat234]

Yeah but you will live and learn. I mean if the girl is withdrawing from you, she's being wise for you sake she knows you're a good person. She just doesn't want you see the other side of her.

Heck I don't want sex; no really I don't. I just want a girl that's honest to herself and not pretending to be someone like some of the flukes out here today. That's my personal issue not yours.

I say go with your gut, you only know what's best for you. If you believe you have a chance with the girl then go for it. If not then just remain friends.

 

[rest0re]

Thanks for all the awesome help. Especially girls (I think you are girls right) Little and BiscuitBee. Basically I tell little bit about myself. I don't really like drugs and I don't like alcohol so it's really weird for me to hear her talk "blaa blaa drugs" when we just talked about great books

And i'm really a good guy and that Encyclopedia Dramatica link is awesome

Seriously.

Edit: I just didn't want to see it but thanks for clearing my head.

 

[eireen]

Oh well, you sounds like a good boy. And for that you deserve a good girl. Just be friend with her and that's all you should do. There are a lot of beautiful and hot chick around am sure of that. I dont want to judge her since i dunno her personally but i just have the instinct that shes not the right girl for yah.

 

[SpikeyBryan]

Do this:

1. Tell her you want to go for coffee.
2. Put some drugs in her drink when she's in the bathroom, I suggest planting laxatives beforehand
3. When she is affected by the drugs, take her to your car, and drive home, make sure you have rope
4. Gag her, tie her up, etc. (if you like bondage, now is the time to do so)
5. Either wait for her to go conscious or just go for it while she's messed up
6. ???????????????
7. PROFIT!

Or:

Just ask Master P

 

[Raven Darkheart]

Grrr.

Men are so stupid.

Why can't men learn to be just friends. Just a girl is nice to you, and friends with you and wants to spend time with you whether it be at a bar or coffee place or someones house, its not a sign for oh really i want you in my panties and im just saying no for fun.

You're friends. Nothing more. Get over your pathetic crush and be the friend that she clearly needs.
sure i agree but sometimes just being friends is difficult. i admit sometimes i get tired of being a girl's ventbag sometimes but i learned that over time, some females take that for granted

QUOTE(Little @ Dec 8 2008, 04:07 AM) You're friends. Nothing more. Get over your pathetic crush and be the friend that she clearly needs.

Agreed.

Perhaps you can love her enough to just be her friend. But, at the same time, if you do suspect her of knowing you have a crush on her, don't bend over backwards for everything she asks for. We don't want to see you get hurt, also we don't want you to be "that guy" who is basically her boyfriend but doesn't get any of the action. (Sorry if that hit a bit too close to home to a few fellow readers

I know you can break free of her/his snare!)

After a while of being 'just friends', also depending on her personality, she might flirt with you to see if you do still like her. Resist it! I believe in you! (note: this doesn't always happen, of course)

Also, as much as I hate the term "damaged goods"... well, you know the rest of my comment.

i fully agree with this. youre going to have to grow a spine and keep your distance with this girl

 

[VmprHntrD]

I don't want to take up a lot of room, so you can read into this how you will, but 2 1/2. Don't go all out, but don't go too soft. Yah she does some crap but admits it was due to her ex and the loneliness and stress of it, so given you're not a dick too the reason to be doing the acid would vanish unless she's an addict (which is why I'm saying 2 1/2.)

 

[Trolly]

Bring it out in the open, get to know her and understand her. If you're not sure, then that's the best option. If you love her for all the stuff she does, her imperfections and the reasons she has them (for instance, you need to work out the whole drug thing with her), then go for it.

Many people have said she's a no-no because of the drugs, drinking and psycho ex. But that can be more of a draw sometimes. If you think you can help her (and she probably needs it if she's smoking drugs and drinking heavily regularly to get over her shyness), then help her. If you do, maybe she'll appreciate how much you care about her.

Bottom line is, get closer to her as a person. If you continue to gel, then go for it. If not, then maybe she's not the one for you.

Why can't men learn to be just friends. Just a girl is nice to you, and friends with you and wants to spend time with you whether it be at a bar or coffee place or someones house, its not a sign for oh really i want you in my panties and im just saying no for fun.

You're friends. Nothing more. Get over your pathetic crush and be the friend that she clearly needs.

Absolutely she needs a friend, but she may well need more than that too. Besides, she never said no or implied so, so nothing's final there. It's up to what I said really at the end of the day.

 

[rest0re]

Oh great. I thought I would not get any replies for this topic. Well if you are interested I could tell how
situation is advanced...

- I gave her Xmas present and a card what was drawn in style of Little Prince and has a quote from it.

Here is what I gave her...
- I sent her text message yesterday. She replied.

Can't get her out of my mind

Yes I don't have a spine. And also other things happened but I will write them later. Maybe tomorrow...

 

[silent sniper]

Give it a shot. There is a chance she's playing you, but I'd take it. Ask her out (just ONCE!), if she says no, then that means she's either serious about the no (and thus will never date you, no matter how gentle the reject) or she's playing you, and if she rejects you, leave her forever because it simply will screw you in the end.

I'm probably exaggerating, but w/e

 

[beefymeatloaf420]

"Shiiit this is my change!"

Sorry I had to. :|

 

[rest0re]

I'm playing my modded PSP and loco roco and doing some painting. And I don't want to think about her now. Too much trouble.

 

[JPH]

Blogged the topic...hope you don't mind.

 

[NeSchn]

I just finally gave up on trying to get a girlfriend. There are much more things for me to worry about then trying to get a girlfriend. I have spent too much time on it.

 

[SpikeyBryan]

grab her.