I believe if you wear a condom while having sex, pregnancy is not a reasonable expectation. Despite you saying so, what's "reasonable" is debatable even if we both agree.
My question, though, didn't presume that she didn't want the child. Is it possible that you convinced her not to have the child, and she felt compelled to agree? If she consulted a lawyer, instead of you, and found that she could have you pay paternity, might it be possible that she'd elect to raise a child without you being around?
My question, though, didn't presume that she didn't want the child. Is it possible that you convinced her not to have the child, and she felt compelled to agree? If she consulted a lawyer, instead of you, and found that she could have you pay paternity, might it be possible that she'd elect to raise a child without you being around?