Because as it stands right now, you just want to replace identity politics, with your own set of moral politics, and then police them until 10% of the population is in jail, just so you dont have to think about leather daddies, who you always think about..

Give people the freedom to exist in that regard (mostly in private anyhow) - an you'd almost not be a radical anymore..
I a secular hedonist whose personal hobbies outside of gaming consists of magic mushrooms, molly & DMT naked around a bonfire & group sex I am not a prude by any stretch of the imagination, I'm in a open poly marriage.
I am in to body modding, I have had dirty looks and discriminatory behavior for how I choose to behave, I don't give a fuck.
I loathed the religious right back in the day for the same cancel culture/behavior I loathe the left for now. People in the 90s didn't help the gay community out of the closet to make room to put the religious in it.
If your going to publicize your fetish's/kink or otherwise act like a weirdo in public I am not in the business of persecuting people who don't like it for thought crimes.
I believe in absolute freedom of thought and association.
I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone, at anytime for any reason no asterisk.
I reserve the right to like or dislike anyone's life style or behavior for any reason no asterisk.
I reserve the right to hire, employ or work with anyone I like, or not because of their life style or behavior no asterisk.
I defy, detest, reject and loathe anyone left or right trying to involve themselves under the color of law determining the validity of those decisions I can make for myself.
I support Cletus's in bumfuck Louisiana's right to tell Blaine in his assless chaps to gtfo of his bakery.
I support Stephens right to tell Pastor preachstomuch to get out of his coffee shop with his morality lectures.
It's not about my comfort, I am comfortable with most anything and anyone. But I am not in the business of legislating what others have to be comfortable with under force of law.
I'm also not talking about the act of exploitation. I'm talking about the specific act of distribution. Where or how it came to be, as despicable as it is, is wholly irrelevant to this line of questioning.
Unless you remove the child from the situation you are engaging in sexual exploitation of a child. That is not speech.