Mine came in the "old" new packaging as well (the new new packaging being the Xmas update) however mine has always worked with the r4idsn Wood that appears on filetrip first that says it will work on r4ids.cn as well so all this is completely befuddling me as it just seems ludicrous to me for the same team to have 2 different versions of the same R4i Gold 3DS at the same time especially when one of them doesn't seem to want to run any updates (whether it needs them or not). However all this is an education so that now when someone says they are having difficulty running Wood on their R4i Gold 3DSI should now not only ask what is the web address on the front of their cart but also what game icon shows. Bloody R4's (not the originals but every fake, copy, clone etc.).Well mine didn't come from a box, it came in a plastic clamshell pack with a yellow/gold card insert and a TF reader.
Nevertheless, I'm prepping my MicroSD to do this, but since I know you only have your 3DS system and one flash cart, I'm going to see if it's possible to run this on the 3DS (since it does actually launch) despite what the readme says. That way there's an indicator that flashing it yourself might work, instead of borrwing a DS Lite
If that doesn't work I'll just do it the way the instructions say.. will update in a minute
edit:
Running it on 3DS, card check fails. It says to reinsert, which won't work on DSi/3DS systems with homebrew, so this specific update is intended specifically to be run on DS Lite
Ran it on DS Lite, initial card check fails, after reinsertion it detected as OK
Upon completion it still shows the "DORASU" icon!
For good measure, I tested the Nov21 bootloader after running that patch and it still doesn't work. (Partly to test Buleste's theory this was a unifying patch)
This flashcart still works with 3DS just fine, loading Bejeweled 3.
I also tested swapping my r4idsn.com MicroSD (With Wood 1.42) in, and it still will not get past White "Loading" screen.
I'm really disappointed that Buleste wasn't right :/ As much as I don't want the Spongebob icon.. it's annoying that the r4ids.cn and r4idsn.com kits I received required slightly different Wood packages when they didn't for most other people
Thanks for your help Exangel and I apologise to tranfeer for saying he was wrong when in reality we were both wrong and right at the same time.
@Bman321 I have sent you a PM so check your messages.