I am a gentleman and a scholar!
But also, I am a nerd, I suppose, although that is a very general description, and I don't think it is really possible to categorise people entirely based in one group. I do play a fair amount of games, and do stuff that was at one point considered 'nerdy' (I became a sound engineer for my old school- although I learnt so many new skills, so it was totally worth it).
But at the same time, I have lots of friends, and am not some sort of social recluse. I get on well with girls, and I can go vast periods of time without even thinking about playing games, or doing 'nerdy' things.
So yes, it's one facet of my personality, but i'm also a musician, a chef, a sound engineer (and technician when needs be), a journeyman, a gentleman, a scholar, and so many other things.....
....and I imagine everyone else is too