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Most of my friends are gay/lesbian/bi...
..when they told me, I said ok..
It's really no big deal.
Most gays are not attracted to straight people, though that's not a firm rule or anything.
The boyfriends can be a bit of a pain, cuz they wonder about you and all.. but it's usually no big deal once they (the boyfriends) get to know you.
The only time I've ever faced what some here seem to fear, was a friend that said he was attracted to me, but he knew I was straight. It was a little awkward, I won't lie, but no more so than a female friend (that you're not attracted to) telling you she always had a crush on you.
Maturity really comes into play in these circumstances. If you're mature enough, and well situated enough with your own sexual direction, it really doesn't effect anything.
If somebody told you they have 12 toes, but they always wore shoes around you, you'd just take their word for it and move on. Same sorta thing. If it doesn't involve you, it shouldn't affect you.
..when they told me, I said ok..
It's really no big deal.
Most gays are not attracted to straight people, though that's not a firm rule or anything.
The boyfriends can be a bit of a pain, cuz they wonder about you and all.. but it's usually no big deal once they (the boyfriends) get to know you.
The only time I've ever faced what some here seem to fear, was a friend that said he was attracted to me, but he knew I was straight. It was a little awkward, I won't lie, but no more so than a female friend (that you're not attracted to) telling you she always had a crush on you.
Maturity really comes into play in these circumstances. If you're mature enough, and well situated enough with your own sexual direction, it really doesn't effect anything.
If somebody told you they have 12 toes, but they always wore shoes around you, you'd just take their word for it and move on. Same sorta thing. If it doesn't involve you, it shouldn't affect you.