What do you hate most about yourself?

[Cloak519]

According to someone I once knew, nobody's perfect. So what exactly do you hate most about yourself? Have you attempted to change whatever that might be? And if so, did it pay off?
I personally hate my 'social situation'. I'm very unsocial and not good with people at all. I tried getting out more, talking to people I'd never met before etc. and failed hard. I just sat there silent and left early. But at the same time, I hate being lonely and wish I had a friend. It's contradictory and irritates me to no end

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So... how about you?

 

[Kioku]

I can be VERY stubborn... -.- and also prefer the Solitude life to a degree :/ I'm argumentative, pushy, bossy, and can be very rude without knowing it >.>

 

[BobTheJoeBob]

I hate nothing about myself. I am perfect in every way.

 

[monkat]

I hate how perfect I am. It leaves no room for improvement

 

[Cloak519]

I hate how perfect I am. It leaves no room for improvement

An improvement would be not hating yourself, in which case, there is room for improvement.

 

[gifi4]

Shyness when talking to girls, not sexual talk or anything like that, friendly talk, or pretty much anything, it's so annoying, I find it incredibly hard to talk to pretty much any girl face to face, puberty, I guess, lol.

 

[mkoo]

I hate nothing about myself. I am perfect in every way.

Now, when did I write that.

 

[Kioku]

Shyness when talking to girls, not sexual talk or anything like that, friendly talk, or pretty much anything, it's so annoying, I find it incredibly hard to talk to pretty much any girl face to face, puberty, I guess, lol.

That and being a basement dwelling troll doesn't much help your case (me) xD

 

[Deleted_171835]

I'm a bit too cocky.
I'm the closest you would get to a personification of perfection, though.
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But at the same time, I hate being lonely and wish I had a friend.

Not necessarily.

Spoiler

 

[monkat]

I hate how perfect I am. It leaves no room for improvement

An improvement would be not hating yourself, in which case, there is room for improvement.

MORE THAN ONE WORD!

BITCH

 

[Cloak519]

But at the same time, I hate being lonely and wish I had a friend.

Not necessarily.

Spoiler

I considered this myself before posting but posted anyway.
'Friend' means different things to different people. I hate the way the word is used on sites like this... it's far too loose.

 

[Blaze163]

I hate how every time I've been forced to move house by the thickness of my parents during my childhood I've never had a chance to say goodbye to the people I cared about, leaving a trail of broken hearts behind me only to realise years later that I should have followed my heart all along and told a certain person that she may well be the one.

Trust me, not a good thing to wake up to every morning.

 

[Snailface]

I'm too self-analytical. I need to learn to leave myself alone.

 

[TrolleyDave]

There's a few things I've changed about myself over the last handful of years. Not really because I hated that aspect of me, what I was doing or anything like that. Just knew it was time for a change as old age was creeping in. lol

I personally hate my 'social situation'. I'm very unsocial and not good with people at all. I tried getting out more, talking to people I'd never met before etc. and failed hard. I just sat there silent and left early. But at the same time, I hate being lonely and wish I had a friend. It's contradictory and irritates me to no end

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So... how about you?

The best thing I could suggest is doing something like joining a boxing/martial arts club, a local leisure centre, local computer club or that type of thing. You could try volunteering in various charity shops as well, that's a great way to meet new people and it forces you to be social.

 

[Cloak519]

I'm too self-analytical. I need to learn to leave myself alone.

Haha feels sucky doesn't it?

There's a few things I've changed about myself over the last handful of years. Not really because I hated that aspect of me, what I was doing or anything like that. Just knew it was time for a change as old age was creeping in. lol

QUOTE(CA519705950 @ Feb 23 2011, 11:51 PM) I personally hate my 'social situation'. I'm very unsocial and not good with people at all. I tried getting out more, talking to people I'd never met before etc. and failed hard. I just sat there silent and left early. But at the same time, I hate being lonely and wish I had a friend. It's contradictory and irritates me to no end

!
So... how about you?

The best thing I could suggest is doing something like joining a boxing/martial arts club, a local leisure centre, local computer club or that type of thing. You could try volunteering in various charity shops as well, that's a great way to meet new people and it forces you to be social.

I might try the charity shop idea. I lack the confidence to do anything in a martial arts club... I walked out of a hairdressers visibily shaking and feeling physically sick the last time I had a cut, so something like martial arts requiring me to move my flabby body along with the anxiety seems nicht gut.
I do however like books, keeping an eye on what gets in and out of charity stores sounds cool

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[The Catboy]

I hate how low my self-esteem really is

 

[Deleted_171835]

I suppose I should give a valid reason.
I hate how obsessive I am. If I see a spelling mistake somewhere within reach, I feel the need to go and fix it. Another thing that may seem weird is that I like to examine things using almost every sense (eg. if there's a pencil sharpener on the other end of the room, I feel the need to go and touch/smell/listen (to) it. Taste is an exception due to the fact that I'm a mild germaphobic which brings me on to my third point. I have a mild form of germaphobia. Cockroaches scare the living daylights out of me and I feel the need to constantly wash my hands and the devices I touch.

As it turns out, I'm not perfect.

 

[Devin]

I'm technically a nobody so......

 

[KingAsix]

Things Jin Triggers doesn't like about himself
-my nose
-my kneecaps (reason I NEVER wear shorts)
-my voice (wish it was deeper)
-My confidence level
-My social status
-etc.

 

[Nujui]

I hate how low my self-esteem really is

That's the same thing as me.

A couple other things, though those I have been dealing with. Self-esteem though is pretty low..