Well I finished my HW. Now time for the ncard!
The ncard looks exactly the same as the one shown on dealextreme. The ncard fits flush into my ds lite, but its a tiny bit, like a millimeter, wider than the r4. Unfortunately it rubs against the sides of my ds because its a little wider. Could the rubbing break the ncard?
Reading paul1991's ncard help file thingy right now (it's on the front page of the ncard faq thread). Thanks a ton paul!
edit: oh and the ncard is apparently on stable v2.53. Is that the latest?
edit2: also the slot-2 is black and looks almost exactly like the original slot 2 cover for an onyx black ds, except it has a little slot for the cable to go into to connect to computer (duh)
edit3: My udisk version is 1.45(8G) and my x-menu is v2.53.