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Hrmm I have a feeling some of you guys have read some of those 'how to be a player and get all the ladiez' books. Man I hate those things. Getting girls isn't some simple formula that you can apply to every single female in the world. Example of the books I'm talking about: The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

There's some good advice in here too. I'm no sex machine but I've had a few girlfriends in my time and I ended up with them without really noticing it...I didn't go out there and hunt I just got to know them without really thinking about it
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The girls that I tried really hard to get with almost always turned out crazy. Don't even get me started on the crazies I've encountered
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This thread brings up memories from high school
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make the most of it guys because you never get to go back to anything like it. imgod reminds me of myself at 16, trying to figure out the strange behaviors and intentions of girls...it can be scary but also awesome.

Just talk to the person you like and get to know them. If you get along then start spending more and more time with them. Once you're sure she's not a psycho bitch ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. It's pretty simple and there's no tricks to it IMO unless you're just looking for sex (which is fair enough when you're 16) Be yourself and try and meet lots of people, chances are you'll click with one of them after a while.
 
I think a lot of people have an unhealthy perspective these days. The objective is to simply "get with a hot chick" because of what it says about you. Little attention is given to whether or not the girl is actually intellectually compatible with you. Yes, as Lyle Lovett preaches, women are smarter and better looking than all of us, but that doesn't mean you have to kowtow to anything with a pretty face.

Once you've been with the hot girl, the super model, the amazing girl, and you leave her, or she leaves you, you'll get it in some way. It's more about finding someone you actually connect with, and if you're one of the people who doesn't care about actual connections, take the wisdom of Billy Bob Thornton into consideration...

"Sex doesn't have to be with a model to be good. As a matter of fact, sometimes with the model, the actress, the "sexiest person in the world," it may be literally like screwing the couch. Don't count out the average-looking woman, or even maybe the slightly unattractive woman, or the really unattractive woman. There may be this swarthy little five-foot-two stocky woman who just has sex all over her."
 
QUOTE(cubin' @ Feb 2 2008 said:
Hrmm I have a feeling some of you guys have read some of those 'how to be a player and get all the ladiez' books. Man I hate those things. Getting girls isn't some simple formula that you can apply to every single female in the world. Example of the books I'm talking about: The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

There's some good advice in here too. I'm no sex machine but I've had a few girlfriends in my time and I ended up with them without really noticing it...I didn't go out there and hunt I just got to know them without really thinking about it
unsure.gif
The girls that I tried really hard to get with almost always turned out crazy. Don't even get me started on the crazies I've encountered
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This thread brings up memories from high school
frown.gif
make the most of it guys because you never get to go back to anything like it. imgod reminds me of myself at 16, trying to figure out the strange behaviors and intentions of girls...it can be scary but also awesome.

Just talk to the person you like and get to know them. If you get along then start spending more and more time with them. Once you're sure she's not a psycho bitch ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. It's pretty simple and there's no tricks to it IMO unless you're just looking for sex (which is fair enough when you're 16) Be yourself and try and meet lots of people, chances are you'll click with one of them after a while.
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First bolded sentence: Care to explain? What is this magical "it"?

Second bolded sentence: In your experience, is that a good thing for me?
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About how much longer until i am "accepted" based on your life?

Last quote: I gave up on that "looking for sex" part. That was true when i was 14, but then again i didn't really talk to girls then. :'(


Herbanassault:

I've actually been trying to change my friends' perspectives from that, lately. I admit I used to have that perspective... and then i got desperate. They probably have enough reason to ignore me.

And as for the pretty face, that reminds me of my friend. He's smart and got a good lookin' body and everything, and the 2 freshman i had a crush on had a crush on my friend >< He likes this other girl who's really, really hot but is freakin' oblivious to him despite liking him back. May be a confusing story, but is true. At the same time i pity and envy him... I'm a horrible person. -.-
 
Damn, there was this girl that I thought was interesting, but I didn't do anything, just let it go. PLus she's in a suburb and I'm a big city boy, so we live far way.
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it really depends on the girl, or guy if any girls are reading this, but it was sort of a mutual agreement with my girlfriend, like we just planned to go to the movies as friends, and suddenly i'm making out with her in the back, while the movie P2 is going on, horrible movie btw.
 
Just Use The Joey Line, " How You Doin' ", mixed with a little irish jig and round it of with a joke, like that great one from Mr Hanks In Catch Me If You Can.
Never Fails......................

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You tell her whos boss. Go up to her and say:

"You. Me. Now."



If theres one thing that girls like, its male dominance.
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-.- life is difficult.

the girl i like doesn't like me :\

So since English class is so "persuasive" I'm gonna see if I can make a small part of "The Great Gatsby" (horrible book imo, but its what we most recently read in class) come true-ish. In the book Nick talks about moving so he could escape being rumored into marriage. Let's see if she'll be rumored into going out with me. At this point in time I'm gonna stop trying.
 
^OBJECTION

Only asking someone out on Valentine's Day is pretty lame. If you like someone, you throw yourself(well, not literally) when you're ready. VD(no, not venereal disease) may be too soon, or too late for you. If your school has a VD dance, ask now. Do it tomorrow. People generally would not like you to hesitate. Be confident. Don't wait for that person to be alone, because that's just creepy. Talk to them no matter how many people are around them, friends can wait.

 
Ok...
There is no magical formula "to pick up chicks" so the quicker you understand that, the easier it'll be to realize that being nice and funny should be enough.

And btw, getting a present from the guy that likes you can be VERY awkward.
 
QUOTE(RayorDragonFall @ Feb 8 2008 said:
Ok...
There is no magical formula "to pick up chicks" so the quicker you understand that, the easier it'll be to realize that being nice and funny should be enough.

And btw, getting a present from the guy that likes you can be VERY awkward.
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And good hygiene.
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That's why "just be yourself" is such a bad idea. What if "yourself" was a greasy slob?
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You don't need to dress awesome or something, just look clean lol

(If you smoke, (which is one of the dirty things I do), breath mints.)
 
QUOTE(RayorDragonFall @ Feb 7 2008 said:
Ok...
There is no magical formula "to pick up chicks" so the quicker you understand that, the easier it'll be to realize that being nice and funny should be enough.

And btw, getting a present from the guy that likes you can be VERY awkward.
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There is Viagra and Axe. Combine them and you have Axagra.
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And for the present from the person who likes you, it's only awkward if you don't like that guy/girl/both if you don't like that person. Like if you also liked that chick/guy that gave you a present, you're gonna go like, SWEET, now I have a chance.
 
God, Axagra sounds like the sexiest possible substance known to man right now.
 
you nubs are putting too much thought into it.

its quite simple. really.
all you need is this line

"Hey does this smell like chloroform to you?"
win!
 

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