There are too many to list, and they all change from Brand to Manufacturer. The best way is to find trusted hardware reviews. Tom's Hardware is a good one.
I'll give you a quick rundown.
There are 2 brands, nVidia and AMD (Formerly ATi).
They are in heated competition but recently nVidia has had the upper hand.
They release 'flagship' cards usually once a year.
There are series of a generation, as an example lets take the nVidia 9 series. There is a 9800, which is the flagship product. Meaning its the best of that series. A few months after the 9800 is released, a few less powerful or 'budget' versions are released for that series. Usually we get a 9600 and a 9500. They have a weaker GPU and less video-ram.
Then come the 9400's and at some point we get the overclocked 9800 at a ridiculous price. Thats usually the way nVidia works. What I always purchase (and recommend to anyone wanting to play games on their machine) is to get the vanilla flagship product AFTER the price cut. What that means is this.
When a 9800 is released, they make variants of that card. So the 9800GTX was the best nVidia when it was released. But after a few months, the 9800GT was released. It had half the vram but almost the same GPU. What vram is good for is loading larger textures, but that is only useful for huge displays. Anything below a 1680x1050 resolution will NOT make use of that extra vram (except under rare situations).
ATi works in the same way, but they don't complicate things with suffixes lite GTX and GT or GTO. So the flagship was the 4870, and the 9800 equivalent was the 4850 and then they released a 4890.
Ok after that there is another dynamic.
Manufacturer. See what happens is, ATi and nVidia release their technology and manufacturer's (like ASUS and Gigabyte and evga, XFX etc...) manufacture these cards. They usually change a few things here and there, sometimes they add vram, or underclock, usually overclock and sell at inflated prices. Usually though, they are very similar.
But again, the best way to know which one is good is to read hardware reviews.