Do you feel desperately lonely?

[coolbho3000]

(Specs: 6'3, Weighing about 150, Meh....I wanna say stronger than most people, but yeah)

I'm around 6'4", give or take (probably give), about 13 stone, slim, and I'm stronger than most too. Whenever I say that I worry that people think I'd be bragging

Oh yeah.....I'm going to add in I'm 15. I'm supposed to be 7'**, when I'm 20. I believe. At least that's what the doctors say.

I'm like 5'8" or 5'9" and a 120lb at peak

I have no confidence at all, just a skinny mofo

I liked a girl but she got taken before I realized it, but I would not have had a chance anyway.

We're GBAtempers, what do you expect? I do have some cash, and I could buy a fairly nice car and still have money left over, maybe I can do something with that. Basically I'm rich and nerdy.

 

[Sanderino]

About having a girlfriend:

Yeah, sometimes you have those moments. hat your asking why you still don't have a girlfriend. I guess I just didn't found the right one yet.

About friends:

No, only if I didn't see them in a few days and I game a lot.

Also, if I game much I feel lonely. Stupid isn't it?

 

[mad567]

Well sometimes.....

When I'm in a situation that i don't have anyone to talk......Or i'm away from home......

But most of time I'm with friends my gf........but ok......I'm sure everyone has his bad days right??

 

[ProtoKun7]

When it comes to having friends, I'm fine with that, as I text a lot or I'm using Messenger or email. It's really the other aspect that brings the problem.

Well sometimes.....

When I'm in a situation that i don't have anyone to talk......Or i'm away from home......

But most of time I'm with friends my gf........but ok......I'm sure everyone has his bad days right??

This is mostly talking about relationships more than just normal friendships.

 

[DarkWay]

hmm alot of your are saying your lonely because your not in a relationship which is fine, in my case I get lonely when my girlfriends not around. There's just that empty space where she usually is and that time you spend together, I just miss it even if she's not gone for a whole long time. if we ever broke up for any reason I'd feel lonely all the time.

Once your with someone you get used to them, their habits, just everything and when they're gone you just feel...well empty.

Some people would say ahh move on it's not the end of the world, plenty more fish in the sea.
I say if it's that easy for you to move on then you didn't truly love them and your feelings for them weren't at all that great.

I don't feel lonely whenever I'm with my friends but there's always that "emptiness" when my girlfriends not around.

 

[Advi]

yes

;_;

 

[ProtoKun7]

You see DarkWay, I've never had one, so you still have the advantage.

 

[Deleted member 133311]

I actually never felt this way. I would just focus on school and video games. Girls were never in my schedule till i met my girlfriend. She just stood out from the rest so I decided I would try the whole dating scene out and I enjoyed it.

#1 Priority: Family
#2 Priority: School, Friends, Girlfriend, Video Games

 

[Mantis41]

If you are actually looking for a partner then what they look like will eventually become irrelevant. Just because someone of the opposite sex makes your knees go week doesn't make them a good prospective girlfriend. It's just called infatution and dies out very quickly leaving you with what? Someone you don't have a lot in common with and can't have endless coversations or spend a lot of time with.

Just get to know heaps of girls as you would any mates. One will eventually click as "Hey! I would actually like to spend a lot of time with this person."

Ignore infatuation. It usually goes knowhere and as is the case with a lot of us blokes leaves us looking like a brainless mute.

 

[NeSchn]

Sometimes

 

[Overlord Nadrian]

@Proto: hey, you know, I was joking about the sex. Of course, it'd be nice, but I'm just looking for some affection. I can almost perfectly 'go with the flow', but sometimes I just wish I had someone with me. You know, to have some fun times... I've never had a girlfriend either btw.

 

[Depravo]

"Being around other people isn't the cure for loneliness. It's the cause." - Daniel Kitson

 

[ProtoKun7]

@Mantis: Don't worry, I'm way ahead of you there. Sure, physical attractiveness is a great advantage, but I look at the person inside too, seeing as that's what really needs to be dealt with.

 

[Sleepwaking]

Sometimes you just suddenly find your "perfect match", a true soulmate and everything is literally PERFECT except the person lives in a different city and you are a poor university student with classes to go to ( a lot ) so you mostly communicate online and through phone. Then one day suddenly you're blocked online, never get any answer to any text, call or anything. All of that without any reason whatsoever.

You're not truely lonely until that happens. Believe me.

Also being the last of your kind on your second-to-last regeneration sucks too, just so you know!

OMG, the exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago, but before she blocked me she wanted to go out with me but stood me up 3 times in a row!!!! Still can't wrap my head around it, a well trying to let it go, it's hard though.

 

[.Chris]

I used to have a girlfriend, but we broke up after a month.
Honestly, I don't really care.

So, not really.

 

[spotanjo3]

Skinny, tall, small, fat, or short doesnt matter. The personality is more important. I like myself because I dont have problem with anybody liking me and I am an athletic. I am trying to avoid being lonely.. What ? Me lonely ? Yes, everyone sometimes are lonely and its normal. Most of time, I am happy for myself and I like myself a lot. Maybe a lonely is something to do with wanting someone to be with you, love you, and care about you a lot. I am not talking about relationship. I am talking about real friend too. The homosexual and heterosexual relationships are all the same! We all are human being and we deserve to have love, no mater what.

 

[ProtoKun7]

Well, I know I stand firmly on the heterosexual side of things.

 

[Gore]

not really

 

[monkat]

Nope! Not even a little.

When my girlfriend is around, I naturally feel like I'm with someone.

When she's not, I am also happy. People are annoying pricks (not that I'm any exception). Why would I want to be around them?

 

[Guild McCommunist]

What is this, the Lonely Hearts Club Band?

But I feel quite isolated a lot of the time, mainly because it's just not easy for me to stretch out of my confined groups of friends and that I don't really live near a major area where I can just go into town with a bunch of them. Not to mention not having a cell phone (I ran out of minutes months ago and we don't have the cash to re-up it) hurts.