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After some time observing my own behavior and my friendships and relationships, I have come across two main points that could end up in my ultimate isolation from the people that I hold in high regard. Well, anyways, here they are:

1. I love seeing people unhappy.
2. I love seeing people suffer extremely harshly.
1. This one extends even further when I am causing the unhappiness and sorrow. (I use big and mean words)

I think the climax of this was when, a few weeks ago, I made my female friend, who I fancied at the time, cry for 5 days consecutively. I deducted that the cause of this was that she was making me so unbearably unhappy at the time, and I basically yelled at her saying that nobody would ever love her and she would be in a situation relative to the crazy cat lady from "The Simpsons." My friends all told me that I threw her into such disarray that she isolated herself constantly.


Does all of this make me a bad person?
I feel as if it does.
 

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You enjoy seeing other people suffer and you said that you feel bad about it?

I think you answered your own question.
 

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Duskye said:
You enjoy seeing other people suffer and you said that you feel bad about it?

I think you answered your own question.
Did I? I didn't mean to intentionally. I do not feel bad about it at all.
 

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Hypershad12 said:
Duskye said:
You enjoy seeing other people suffer and you said that you feel bad about it?

I think you answered your own question.
Did I? I didn't mean to intentionally. I do not feel bad about it at all.
Let me rephrase that.

You said that you enjoy other people's suffering.

You asked does that you make you a bad person?

You said it feels as if it does.

There's your answer.
 

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To be honest you sound like the kid at school who'll be the one to "fall" down a flight of stairs.
By fall I mean, get pushed for great justice.
The only time it's ok to enjoy someone suffering is when it's people like you, no offense.
 

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TDWP FTW said:
Guild McCommunist said:
No offense, but you act like a stereotypical emo poser.
Fix'd.

Seriously, it's only going to cause more people to hate you, which will eventually make you hate yourself. If you want to have all your friends, family, etc. hate you, go for it.

That's kinda the point of an emo. Have people hate you so you at least know you're getting attention. Not positive attention, mind you.

Oh, and to pick up chicks. Once you're an emo even the fugliest and blandest mofos get to score some fugly emo chick that looks like a farm animal.
 

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Do you enjoy seeing them suffering, or do you simply don't care? Because if you enjoyed it, that would mean you are inclined to do it again and again. But if you simply didn't feel bad, then that's ok. I myself don't feel bad if I hurt some one's feelings, and I don't consider myself a bad person.
 

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Taking pleasure in the pain of others, and especially taking joy in inflicting that pain:
yeah that qualifies as being a "bad person" by my standards.
It's also grounds for a beating or three in my neck of the woods. So don't be surprised if it happens.

Do you think twenty years from now that you will be able to look back at the young person you are (were) without regret?
 

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Guild McCommunist said:
No offense, buy you act like a stereotypical emo.

HURR HURR I LIKE TO SEE SORROW AND WATCH PEOPLE CRY HURR HURR.

It's fucking annoying.

Herp Durp
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I guess you live by the motto, "Why be good when It feels so good to be bad".

To me there has to be evil people in the world or else how would we know who the good people where or vice versa.

I don't see anything wrong with going to the extreme on either side of the equation. Do what makes you happy and damn the consequences.
 

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