PROBLM SOLVED
I am using a MAC and it was not set up to detect hidden partition. when formatting in Exfat apple automatically makes a small 200MB partition. to fix this one must go to parrallels and boot in windows. from there hit command R and bring up the "RUN" search. type in diskmgmt.msc with bringsup windows version of Disk Utility, and you will notice a second partition on your drive. to delete this you must open the command prompt - windows version of Terminal.
Hit command + R again and type in cmd
Type in the following hitting enter after each new line:
diskpart
list disk
select disk #
(Replace # with disk number of your drive)
clean
(make sure you chose the correct disk number as "clean" will completely erase the drive)
exit
Now close out the terminal and hit Command+R again, typing in diskmgmt.msc. the HD will be there but will say unallocated/Unknown/Not Initialized so right click on the disk and click on Initialize Disk. then all you need to do is reformat using windows as Exfat and your golden!