Me and My Girlfriend

Ok so I recently broke up with my girlfriend of six months. I decided to explain what went down and see what my fellow tempers think. So where to start....Ok I was at church waiting for bible study to start and we were talking. We got on the subject of food and I started comparing her church overall to all the food I've tasted. I basically said her church's cooking was medicore and ok. It was good but I'd had better. She took offense to this and told me to stop talking and I sound stupid. Totally unaware that I offended her, I asked why'd she say that to me. She tells me nothing. She believes that she can say anything and just get away with it. She knows that doesn't fly with me. So we begin to argue and in the argument she tells me I offended her, but note I'm voicing my own opinion. So I told her all she had to say (versus what she said) was that I was being a little to harsh cause as I told her it is possible to offend someone and not know it. So we countinue to argue and she begun to "act/say stupid" so I got mad and told her to shut the hell up. I leave, eat, and clam down. I call her back. I begin talking in a nice tone and she ignores me. So I was like why are you ignoring me. Her response was that I was mad so she didn't want to talk. I was no longer mad until she countinued to act stupid. Then she hangs up in my face and when I call back she says "i had to switch phone but I didn't feel like telling you". That was my last straw. Note that once I after I clamed down the 1st time and called her back I apologized for getting upset and telling her to shut up. So basically I'm trying to resolve the issues, finding better ways to handle things so this wouldn't happen again, being mature and she is over on the other line saying whatever, doing whatever (thinking she can get away with it and that what she says is end of story), being immature, getting smart with me and everything. So after she went to her bible study, I tought about and we are no longer together. So voice your opinion on this tempers.

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[quote name='Rowan' post='2532283' date='Jan 14 2010, 08:08 PM']MURDER HER[/quote]


NO! Violate her! :angry:

Do not feel guilty, it shows that she does not deserve to go out with you, as a key in a relationship is accepting your partner. You have done well but there is a long distance line between you and her with a conflict that is really a nonsense.

Don´t put me much attention. I've never had a girlfriend, but I doubt she like go out with a stupid like me... :sad:
 
sonic slasher - I wish I wasn't but from where I'm from older girls tend to have more problems then the younger ones, but she was ok during the 1st few months. I think I tearted her too well so she thinks she can do whatever without consequences.com

Juanmatron - exactly.....she would not have pulled this shit with any other guy she was with. I admited my wrongs and yes the whole argument started over nonsense but I still tried to resolve it best I could....but in a relationship she gotta meet me half way....at least.
 
The cooking incident was probably just something that set her off. I'm guessing there was another problem you might be unaware of.
 
Magmorph - I doubt it cause we were having a nice conversation. We were laughing and enjoying each others convo. She doesn't even care for her church in general to tell you the truth.
 
The problem doesn't necessarily have to have anything to do with the conversation you were having with her. She could have been mad at you for something else and just never said anything about it. I may be wrong about there being an underlying problem but girls, especially teen girls, are going to be bitchy some of the time.
 
like magmorph says, there is something else. Or she's really sensitive on that subject, which I highly doubt. But you know her better then any of us so. I say that you should wait a couple of days/weeks/months, any time you think necessary, to let her calm down, because it isn't going to get any better now. She'll come back to you or you go back to her when you think she's calmed down.
good luck with this mate;)
 
If I understand correctly, you broke up over church food?

Hah, melodrama always amuses me.

Anyway, I say just become a priest and never worry about pussy ever again. I mean, it's right down your alley! Bible studies!
 
That just doesn't make sence.. :S Did you officially broke up, otherwise, she'll come around.
 
She's not on birth control pills? the hormones can fuck a girl up pretty badly (trust me, i know).
I could say "i'm hungry" and my girlfriend could break down and cry for 20 minutes.... because... i was hungry... :P

but. did you break up with her or she break up with you? if you did, take her back and give her another chance... a 6 month relationship that is healthy shouldnt break for that little fght...
 
Lol i say get up and nove on. If she snaps over that imagine if you forget something like an anniversary or something.
 
Issac - ....seriously...lol...wow and I was thinking about getting her some brith control. But yeah six months is a long time esp. how long the average relationship last at our age, but this is weekly shit from her. I've improve but I see no chance from her and its getting old.

Brotz - Thats what I'm saying. The smallest shit becomes the biggest argument.

I guess some of you are right. I guess I'll tkae a break from here, because shit like this happens often, but even if I'm in the wrong I admit it and try to work it out. She just acts as described and does whatever. So Imma let her be her for awhile and if she wants me back thats on her.
 
[quote name='JinTrigger' post='2532489' date='Jan 14 2010, 09:53 PM']Issac - ....seriously...lol...wow and I was thinking about getting her some brith control. But yeah six months is a long time esp. how long the average relationship last at our age, but this is weekly shit from her. I've improve but I see no chance from her and its getting old.

Brotz - Thats what I'm saying. The smallest shit becomes the biggest argument.

I guess some of you are right. I guess I'll tkae a break from here, because shit like this happens often, but even if I'm in the wrong I admit it and try to work it out. She just acts as described and does whatever. So Imma let her be her for awhile and if she wants me back thats on her.[/quote]

I only can say this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOU8GIRUd_g...feature=related

Don´t think I was saying "You Got Rick Rolled".
 
Thats women for you, they are the most unpredictable creatures on the planet. You never know what will set em off.
 

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