I'm Telling Her

nice lol

[quote name='ortomedius' post='2840720' date='May 18 2010, 02:31 PM'][quote name='waffle1995' post='2840708' date='May 18 2010, 09:27 PM']My uncle tought me something to get chicks.

Touch her leg(lap) and move it closer to the u know what.
If she slap u or move ur hand, leave she not the 1.
repeat the process over and over untill u find 1.

Im not trying to be sick or anything else, my uncle tought me it and it works.[/quote]

I saw Joey from Friends doing that.
But yeah that certainly isn't the way.
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Friends? nvm lol tho

You guys are friends! She doesn't want to ruin it.

Sounds pretty positive to me! For what it's worth from the looks of it you'd make a good couple. Just try not to obsess now, ball is in her court. Good for you in having the balls to say what you felt. Probably felt liberating eh.

If she was twirling her hair, that means she was nervous, but she definitely likes you. Go for it!

Though I don't generally post over here (in the blog section), I felt like doing so . And although I'm not really the one who should be giving advice, people do tell me I give great advice even in this area .

1. Way to go in telling her
2. Glad she didn't blow up in your face about it (this is at the very, very, very least a positive let down, as long as she doesn't string you along now)
3. Good your feeling good .
4. +1 for Gyakuten Saiban (Phoenix wright)
5. +1 for writing about this on gbatemp, way better to share such things then to bottle them up and stay in your own indecisiveness (and gives us a good time reading and replying )

All in all I'd agree with Kevin, ball in her court and all. I'd say see where it goes, you might still need to push the first moves there though. You know when the moment is right watching a movie together putting your arm around her ("she's tired or cold, but really genuinly"), later (different date) opening up for that first kiss (if she is as shy as you think, def. don't go for tounge first time unless she does ) after a succesfull date. Also, I assume most of the things you've done together so far has also been "as friends", whereas now things could/should be more about eachother / romance.

But then again, I'm just ranting, sounds to me like you have it under control and she's receptive to your feelings. Giant advantage here being she KNOWS how you feel so if she decides to go on a date with you she knows what your intentions are (I mean romance you dogs, not sex ^^) so the giant elephant isn't so big anymore.

[quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2840717' date='May 18 2010, 09:30 PM']Alright, I'll tell you what happened.

I went over to her house and we were outside, we talked for a bit about school and then I told her everything. I complimented her, I told her what I liked about her, etc. She then proceeded to tell me that she was flattered and shocked that I liked her. She told me she thought I was out of her league and that she was trying to work her way up to where I'm at. She said there aren't many guys like me out there, lots of them are dogs. (Sorry guys.) She said considers me her closest (guy) friend. And that's pretty much how it went. I'm not upset or depressed cause I feel there is still hope. I guess playing Phoenix Wright games comes in handy because I noticed lots of things about her during our conversation:

1. She was playing with her hair a lot, and I mean ALOT, while we were talking. Like she was nervous.
2. I asked her a couple of times how she felt but she dodged the question like she was hiding something from me.
3. She told me to not take it as a rejection
4. My friend, who spoke with her, told me she does indeed like me. At first I thought he was lying about it but he was very serious about it.

I dunno maybe I'm looking into this too much but I think she may like me but she's shy about it herself. So I'm just going to keep talking to her and see what happens from there.

But if anyone wants to see a picture of her, here's a picture of us with our Orchestra classmates last Thursday at our final concert. She is tall one in the middle with the black dress. I'm the guy in the back, without the glasses. Sorry for the blurriness.

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You still have a chance.
You need to take it slow. if you guys go to parties sometimes together you'll need to grab your chance and make out.
Don't you Americans have prom too?
You'll have lots of chances, take it slow bro.

Nice!

It seems definite that she likes you back.
I wish you good luck in your future relationship with this girl.

Well, all I can say is.


Good job.

You go Girl!

[quote name='Njrg' post='2840981' date='May 18 2010, 04:00 PM']You go Girl![/quote]

And Rock Raiyu, too!

In all seriousness, you might be set. Just don't treat her any differently because the cat's out of the bag. Being yourself is why she digs you in the first place, after all!

[quote name='Sanderino' post='2840843' date='May 18 2010, 04:14 PM']
You still have a chance.
You need to take it slow. if you guys go to parties sometimes together you'll need to grab your chance and make out.
Don't you Americans have prom too?
You'll have lots of chances, take it slow bro. [/quote]
Yeah, we have porn too, and it's just as good

In all seriousness, She is really cute! Best of luck to the OP.

I failed in the same regard a while back due to a combination of shit luck and my own incompetence, unfortunately.

For serious, I never would've thought you were black. Don't take that the wrong way, but I imagine 99% of GBAtempers as nerdy white kids. No offense.

Meh, with me, the girl said she had a lot of her own problems to deal with and my friend said she does indeed have feelings for me. All in all it's just a waiting game. They love to make you wait

But hey, keep that chin up!

[quote name='Guild McCommunist' post='2841047' date='May 18 2010, 05:18 PM']For serious, I never would've thought you were black. Don't take that the wrong way, but I imagine 99% of GBAtempers as nerdy white kids. No offense.

Meh, with me, the girl said she had a lot of her own problems to deal with and my friend said she does indeed have feelings for me. All in all it's just a waiting game. They love to make you wait

But hey, keep that chin up![/quote]
I'm a nerdy asian kid

Bitchin'.

[quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2840717' date='May 18 2010, 08:30 PM']Alright, I'll tell you what happened.

I went over to her house and we were outside, we talked for a bit about school and then I told her everything. I complimented her, I told her what I liked about her, etc. She then proceeded to tell me that she was flattered and shocked that I liked her. She told me she thought I was out of her league and that she was trying to work her way up to where I'm at. She said there aren't many guys like me out there, lots of them are dogs. (Sorry guys.) She said considers me her closest (guy) friend. And that's pretty much how it went. I'm not upset or depressed cause I feel there is still hope. I guess playing Phoenix Wright games comes in handy because I noticed lots of things about her during our conversation:

1. She was playing with her hair a lot, and I mean ALOT, while we were talking. Like she was nervous.
2. I asked her a couple of times how she felt but she dodged the question like she was hiding something from me.
3. She told me to not take it as a rejection
4. My friend, who spoke with her, told me she does indeed like me. At first I thought he was lying about it but he was very serious about it.

I dunno maybe I'm looking into this too much but I think she may like me but she's shy about it herself. So I'm just going to keep talking to her and see what happens from there.

But if anyone wants to see a picture of her, here's a picture of us with our Orchestra classmates last Thursday at our final concert. She is tall one in the middle with the black dress. I'm the guy in the back, without the glasses. Sorry for the blurriness.

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Also, how did she say the guy friend thing? Like, we're close, or, you're like a brother to me? The first one means she's worried about your friendship but the second one means fuck no.

[quote name='chao1212' post='2841100' date='May 18 2010, 04:34 PM']Also, how did she say the guy friend thing? Like, we're close, or, you're like a brother to me? The first one means she's worried about your friendship but the second one means fuck no.[/quote]

Haha, I've been up and down that one before!

Ahh, memories.

[quote name='coolbho3000' post='2841051' date='May 18 2010, 02:19 PM']I'm a nerdy asian kid [/quote]

We could be twins!
And, good for you Raiyu! You rock! (See what I did there?)

good luck dude