I'm Telling Her

Todays the fucking day. Today is definitely the day, I'm going to her house after school today and I'm going to tell her how I feel about her.

For those that don't know what I'm talking about, last week I invited a girl I like, no scratch that, a woman I like to my house and I was going to tell her my feelings but that dream was dashed because she had to help her cousin with prom. So I couldn't tell her. I called her last night and I told her to meet me in front of a building because I had something important to tell her. She said she would meet me but later she called me and said she had to talk to her teacher (again) to get her grade up but I can meet her after school. So that's what I'm going to do.

I honestly can't believe I'm doing this all for one girl. I've never had these feelings for a woman. Like seriously, if you were to talk to my closest friends I never get flustered or anything over a girl. I guess its because I don't go for just any girl. I don't settle for less, I only settle for the best and to me, she is the best. I feel like I can tell her anything, I can do anything when I'm with her. I feel sound when I'm around her and I feel like I have no worries. I changed my whole lifestyle thanks to her and she doesn't even know. I guess it is like what Eminem said in "Not Afraid":

It was my decision to get clean
I did it for me
Admittedly, I probably did it subliminaly, for you
So I can come back a brand new man you helped see me through
And you don't even realize what you did
Believe me you

and

Cause the way I feel
I'm strong enough to go to the club
Go to the corner parlor
and lift the whole liquor counter up
Cause I'm raisin the bar
I shoot for the moon
But I'm too busy gazing at stars
I feel amazing and I'm Not Afraid

That's it guys, it's game time.

Comments

Guild McCommunist
Best of luck.

If she says yes, you can make as all more depressed because you're happy and we're not.

If she says no, you can join the Lonely Hearts Club Band and wallow in self pity!

If she's undecided, that means she wants it!
 
O
You seem really innocent in love, which isn't a bad thing I think. Go get her mate! Gluck!
 
spotanjo3
Oh brother. Too many people, of all ages, confuse lust or infatuation with love. Sex is not love. Your first love is not going to last forever.

I have a hard time believing teens who go on and on about loving someone they've known for less than a couple weeks or less than a year.
 
WildWon
[quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2839854' date='May 18 2010, 09:33 AM']*snip*[/quote]

Well, good luck. I'd like to give some advice from experience. Go into it cool. Be sure to have some semblance of sanity when you try to tell her. Otherwise, if you go in a-hearts a-blazin', you can scare her. It happened to me, just one time. I am still not happy about my lack of tact with it. But alas, life is much better now heh.

But yea, remember, if this doesn't work, LEARN from it. It'll help in the long run :)

(but all in all, i really hope this works out for you :)

EDIT: oh, and if it goes south, remember, it's not the end of the world... more fish in the sea... if you can't stand the heat... everybody wang chung tonight... yadda yadda.
 
Domination
[quote name='Guild McCommunist' post='2839863' date='May 18 2010, 09:38 PM']If she says no, you can join the Lonely Hearts Club Band and wallow in self pity![/quote]

Can I be the lead singer? Dommy Shears. :D

Good luck dude! :D
 
Costello
[quote name='RockmanForte' post='2839898' date='May 18 2010, 10:01 PM']Oh brother. Too many people, of all ages, confuse lust or infatuation with love. Sex is not love. Your first love is not going to last forever.

I have a hard time believing teens who go on and on about loving someone they've known for less than a couple weeks or less than a year.[/quote]
I disagree, put whatever words you want on your own feelings mate, dont let other people tell you what you feel.
good luck ! and remember come back here as soon as you can to let us know how it went :yaywii:
 
retKHAAAN
Good luck.

And don't disappear if you get shot down. You seem like a decent enough guy and some girls just need a bit for that to click since they're so used to dating assholes.
 
spotanjo3
[quote name='Costello' post='2839931' date='May 18 2010, 10:18 AM'][quote name='RockmanForte' post='2839898' date='May 18 2010, 10:01 PM']Oh brother. Too many people, of all ages, confuse lust or infatuation with love. Sex is not love. Your first love is not going to last forever.

I have a hard time believing teens who go on and on about loving someone they've known for less than a couple weeks or less than a year.[/quote]
I disagree, put whatever words you want on your own feelings mate, dont let other people tell you what you feel.
good luck ! and remember come back here as soon as you can to let us know how it went :yaywii:
[/quote]

No, I am not a teenager. Therefore, I know what I am doing for I am an adult in 30's. Thank you very much. :)
 
Veho
[quote name='RockmanForte' post='2839898' date='May 18 2010, 04:01 PM']Oh brother. Too many people, of all ages, confuse lust or infatuation with love. Sex is not love.[/quote]
And not everyone is like you. Stop assuming everyone will repeat the mistakes you made.
 
Sanderino
[quote name='Veho' post='2840127' date='May 18 2010, 05:40 PM']And not everyone is like you. Stop assuming everyone will repeat the mistakes you made.[/quote]

Haha!
I needed to smile when you said that altough ironically, it might be true. :P
 
luke_c
Good luck mate! I'm sure it will be fine, if you really feel that way about her she will understand and direct those emotions back at you :wub:
 
spotanjo3
[quote name='Veho' post='2840127' date='May 18 2010, 11:40 AM'][quote name='RockmanForte' post='2839898' date='May 18 2010, 04:01 PM']Oh brother. Too many people, of all ages, confuse lust or infatuation with love. Sex is not love.[/quote]
And not everyone is like you. Stop assuming everyone will repeat the mistakes you made.
[/quote]

Uh-uh.. "Assume" is a strong word -- define: Presumptuous; arrogant.

Your quote should be like this:

Stop guessing everyone will repeat the mistakes you made.
Click to expand...

Anyway, hahaha. :)

You really have no idea what you're talking about, indeed.

As teenagers, you guys don't have as much experience in general. Does that mean I don't believe you guys can fall in love and know what that is? No. you guys are still learning, and that's wonderful.
(btw, a lot of adults like me are still learning too.) Don't jump to conclusions, alright ? :) :rolleyes:
 

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