Emotionaly Confused?

Okay, so a lot of people use this to post problems, but I'll just post what's been going on, some problems...

So, like half of the other blog articles, there's someone that I like, some girl, and we're really good friends. But it's been getting a little bit stronger... We live on the same street, go on the same bus, and same grade(although she's 15 and I'm 13, she looks 12 :P) And we used to just talk about something we found online or anime, or what's been happening, but that was from the seat in front of her. Now I come to sit next to her, and she doesn't mind, each day I feel like I'm getting closer to her, and she doesn't mind, even when I get a seat first she comes over to me, and we talk and laugh, trust me, if you heard us, you would freak out instantly. But now it seems closer.

Before people would go like: Hey, you two are going out!, but she'd be like "Umm...nooo! Why would I do that?"

Now it's calmer: No, we're just really close friends...

But I don't want to mess up our friendship, by asking her out, anyways, I fear being rejected... Christmas is coming, or maybe even New Years... god I can't think of anything to say anymore though... It sucks that we don't have the same classes, or same field trips, like Tuesday I'll be gone! :) But still, I just want to say something, but I can't at the same time.

Enough with the emotional stuff, here's a funny story:(fuck, if it was on camera, I would put it on fucking youtube)

It's that kind of thing that's funny at the time, since it was small, but you don't expect that from this kind of person.

He sat on a desk in the row, and it fell forward and he fell, making three desks in front of him fall too. :rofl:

Or this story our teacher told us, one class had kids passing notes around a lot, so he threatened to read the note, OUT LOUD, if he caught someone, so he did, but he told everyone that already, so he read it, but it said: "I am gay." :) fucking hilarious

he's the same teacher that falls asleep in class. :P

I guess I just had to steam out a bit, I was bored, and I want some sort of advice... :(

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Take relationship tips from Master P.
He is wise; soul-mending.
 
I'm not going to bother, I'm tired...

Man I wish fucking Saturday Academy didn't exist, so she didn't have to go. :(
 
Just let her know how you fell about her trust me I was in kind of the same situation.I like a girl that was older then me I think about 2 years older and I really liked her and we would talk alot and hang out alot.The problem is I never told her how I flet about her and well she moved away and well she nevr knew how I felt about her so ya just tell her you like her.:)
 
i'm sorry dude but there is no winning, and no solid advice that anyone will ever be able to give you.
there are a few things that could happen.
first: you could be scared of losing her as a friend and never tell her how you feel, guess what one day some other guy is going to come down the line and snatch her away from you.
second: you tell it like it is and she feels the same way you love her and she loves you two weeks to six months down the line she does the regular stupid girl thing and decides she doesn't like you, she does have a reason but you'll never find out and go on wondering for quite some time where you went wrong.
third:something magical happens you two just click together like a puzzle with only one other piece, and live for what is the most part happily ever after. secretly back in your mind no matter how wonderful life turns out to be you'll be thinking what if…could i have gotten someone prettier? maybe my kids would have been better behaved with another mother? possibly if she wasn't distracting me holding me back all this time i would have tried harder gotten a better job and be rich right now?

as you can see there is no such thing as true happiness, but i say go for it and here's what i would do.
start out slow as friends but with confidence don't ever say anything about it, be there for her slowly start holding her hand and helping her out however you can. eventually your moment will come up the opportunity comes in go in for it and keep remembering slow make a small subtle compliment when you see her smile or blush you have to know she likes it go in and just kiss her neck. things will move naturally from there as long as you remember slow don't ever push for more.
 
[quote name='jefffisher' post='1628590' date='Dec 13 2008, 12:14 AM']i'm sorry dude but there is no winning, and no solid advice that anyone will ever be able to give you.
there are a few things that could happen.
first: you could be scared of losing her as a friend and never tell her how you feel, guess what one day some other guy is going to come down the line and snatch her away from you.
second: you tell it like it is and she feels the same way you love her and she loves you two weeks to six months down the line she does the regular stupid girl thing and decides she doesn't like you, she does have a reason but you'll never find out and go on wondering for quite some time where you went wrong.
third:something magical happens you two just click together like a puzzle with only one other piece, and live for what is the most part happily ever after. secretly back in your mind no matter how wonderful life turns out to be you'll be thinking what if…could i have gotten someone prettier? maybe my kids would have been better behaved with another mother? possibly if she wasn't distracting me holding me back all this time i would have tried harder gotten a better job and be rich right now?

as you can see there is no such thing as true happiness, but i say go for it and here's what i would do.
start out slow as friends but with confidence don't ever say anything about it, be there for her slowly start holding her hand and helping her out however you can. eventually your moment will come up the opportunity comes in go in for it and keep remembering slow make a small subtle compliment when you see her smile or blush you have to know she likes it go in and just kiss her neck. things will move naturally from there as long as you remember slow don't ever push for more.[/quote]
fuck, I cant even bring myself to put my arms around her for a hug all the time, everyone at school keeps saying stuff when this annoying kid comes along, someone else is like: That's alex's girlfriend your messing with. I just choke up... I mean we can be like that, it seems like this week it's been speeding up a bit... but what I'm not sure at is some guy who came along when she was cold and kept her warm, i couldnt find her. :( I don't think they're going out though because she would have said something when they keep asking if we were going out...
 
Jus go for it and tell her you like her if she likes you she'll tell you and if she doesn't at least you guys will still be friends.
 
Welcome to life kid , this is just one of the many things in life that seperates the men from the boys.
What you need to do is tell her how you feel without putting yourself out there. How do you do that ?
I'm not really sure you need to figure that out for yourself. But what I suppose you could do would be something like ....maybe when one someone says thats your girlfriend and if she is standing there , you could say she is and see how she reacts to that....and if it backfires you could just say you wanted to see how the person who said that would react. You follow me? or figure out some other way , I don't know what else to tell ya.
 
[quote name='alex' post='1628630' date='Dec 13 2008, 12:37 AM']fuck, I cant even bring myself to put my arms around her for a hug all the time, everyone at school keeps saying stuff when this annoying kid comes along, someone else is like: That's alex's girlfriend your messing with. I just choke up... I mean we can be like that, it seems like this week it's been speeding up a bit... but what I'm not sure at is some guy who came along when she was cold and kept her warm, i couldnt find her. :( I don't think they're going out though because she would have said something when they keep asking if we were going out...[/quote]alex, man, you need to listen to Master P.
Everything will then become clear.

He will give you advice and wisdom you could only dream of.
 
[quote name='JPH' post='1628676' date='Dec 12 2008, 09:54 PM'][quote name='alex' post='1628630' date='Dec 13 2008, 12:37 AM']fuck, I cant even bring myself to put my arms around her for a hug all the time, everyone at school keeps saying stuff when this annoying kid comes along, someone else is like: That's alex's girlfriend your messing with. I just choke up... I mean we can be like that, it seems like this week it's been speeding up a bit... but what I'm not sure at is some guy who came along when she was cold and kept her warm, i couldnt find her. :( I don't think they're going out though because she would have said something when they keep asking if we were going out...[/quote]alex, man, you need to listen to Master P.
Everything will then become clear.

He will give you advice and wisdom you could only dream of.
[/quote]

It's true, I've tried it. Master P. helped me get it goin' on with the ladies. Just a few listens will help you, do it!
 
[quote name='SpikeyBryan' post='1628807' date='Dec 12 2008, 11:18 PM'][quote name='JPH' post='1628676' date='Dec 12 2008, 09:54 PM'][quote name='alex' post='1628630' date='Dec 13 2008, 12:37 AM']fuck, I cant even bring myself to put my arms around her for a hug all the time, everyone at school keeps saying stuff when this annoying kid comes along, someone else is like: That's alex's girlfriend your messing with. I just choke up... I mean we can be like that, it seems like this week it's been speeding up a bit... but what I'm not sure at is some guy who came along when she was cold and kept her warm, i couldnt find her. :( I don't think they're going out though because she would have said something when they keep asking if we were going out...[/quote]alex, man, you need to listen to Master P.
Everything will then become clear.

He will give you advice and wisdom you could only dream of.
[/quote]

It's true, I've tried it. Master P. helped me get it goin' on with the ladies. Just a few listens will help you, do it!
[/quote]
I have a friend in a similar situation, and he came to me for help. Master P. has helped him become a stronger man, and after years of being single he's got a girlfriend. And she knows he loves her.
 
[quote name='Psychoish' post='1628813' date='Dec 12 2008, 11:23 PM'][quote name='SpikeyBryan' post='1628807' date='Dec 12 2008, 11:18 PM'][quote name='JPH' post='1628676' date='Dec 12 2008, 09:54 PM'][quote name='alex' post='1628630' date='Dec 13 2008, 12:37 AM']fuck, I cant even bring myself to put my arms around her for a hug all the time, everyone at school keeps saying stuff when this annoying kid comes along, someone else is like: That's alex's girlfriend your messing with. I just choke up... I mean we can be like that, it seems like this week it's been speeding up a bit... but what I'm not sure at is some guy who came along when she was cold and kept her warm, i couldnt find her. :( I don't think they're going out though because she would have said something when they keep asking if we were going out...[/quote]alex, man, you need to listen to Master P.
Everything will then become clear.

He will give you advice and wisdom you could only dream of.
[/quote]

It's true, I've tried it. Master P. helped me get it goin' on with the ladies. Just a few listens will help you, do it!
[/quote]
I have a friend in a similar situation, and he came to me for help. Master P. has helped him become a stronger man, and after years of being single he's got a girlfriend. And she knows he loves her.
[/quote]

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