She's BAAAAAAACK!!!

[FluffyLunamoth]

The point of this thread is to let you know just how badly you hurt me, and hopefully at least make you feel bad for doing it. Duh.

If it wasn't for a VERY few decent people I've met around here that I'd like to stay in touch with, I'd not have even bothered at all.

But I'd like to let those few know I'm still around, and let them know where they are now more likely to find me, okay?

You...you sir....you....you are...you are an ATTENTION WHORE.

 

[Edgedancer]

Sorry but I cannot say I know what you are complaining about? Could you possibly show what is wrong as insulting the GBAtemp staff, particularly mthrnite is the equivalent of making a puppy cry.

 

[Domination]

Good that you found a forum that accepts you. I would like to say I'll miss you, but I don't know you well enough. And losen up a bit, IMO, one reason people flame you is because you sound too serious.

 

[Raika]

I remember you!

Right?

 

[elixirdream]

Hi there

 

[Kalisiin]

Sorry but I cannot say I know what you are complaining about? Could you possibly show what is wrong as insulting the GBAtemp staff, particularly mthrnite is the equivalent of making a puppy cry.

Couldn't say anything about making a puppy cry...but plenty of people on this forum have made ME cry, and Mthrnite never seems to give a good god damn. Because none of the Admins ever does anything to the people who are mean to me. They flamebait me and get away with it. Nothing ever gets done if I complain about it to Admins...and when I finally can take no more, and then react...since Admin won't do their job...then I get warn increase/ban.

To hell with that. Mean people suck and should be punished. The flamebaiters should be punished EVEN BEFORE I HAVE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THEM...Admins should do their job. but, no, they'd rather just re-victimize the victim. It's just like in grade school...the teacher NEVER sees the schoolyard bully BEING a bully...only sees it when the victim finally reacts...and then...just deals with the symptom (punishes the victim) and never deals with the actual problem (punishing the bully.)

Good that you found a forum that accepts you. I would like to say I'll miss you, but I don't know you well enough. And losen up a bit, IMO, one reason people flame you is because you sound too serious.

I am very emotionally sensitive. I don't take kindly to people being mean or sarcastic or giving me garbage. I don't take it. On thing I have learned is...the more garbage you TAKE...and say nothing about...the more garbage you will be given.

I refuse to take garbage off people. You take crap off people and they will walk all over you.

I won't be walked on. I deserve better, and will demand such.


QUOTE(Raika @ Nov 28 2009, 12:54 AM)

I remember you!

Right?

Yep. and you're one of the cool folks around here. I oughta send you a PM let you know where you can find me more regularly if you like. I'm on a board about the Dingoo, lately, as I find I'm more into that device just lately...and most of the people there are nicer. With a few exceptions. The good folk mostly know who they are. So do the mean people, although I daresay most of the mean people probably think they are God's greatest work.

 

[bnwchbammer]

Damn, i thought it was boxy news. It sucks that you can't take internet harassment though, how old are you, 12? Sorry, I'll try to be nice, but honestly, sometimes you've just got to ignore it. Trolls like it when people get mad, so dont get mad. Not hard eh?

 

[Kalisiin]

The point of this thread is to let you know just how badly you hurt me, and hopefully at least make you feel bad for doing it. Duh.

If it wasn't for a VERY few decent people I've met around here that I'd like to stay in touch with, I'd not have even bothered at all.

But I'd like to let those few know I'm still around, and let them know where they are now more likely to find me, okay?

You...you sir....you....you are...you are an ATTENTION WHORE.

No - I just DEMAND to be treated fairly and respectfully.
And someone who does not treat me right OUGHT to feel rotten for treating me badly.

 

[Domination]

Good that you found a forum that accepts you. I would like to say I'll miss you, but I don't know you well enough. And losen up a bit, IMO, one reason people flame you is because you sound too serious.

I am very emotionally sensitive. I don't take kindly to people being mean or sarcastic or giving me garbage. I don't take it. On thing I have learned is...the more garbage you TAKE...and say nothing about...the more garbage you will be given.

I refuse to take garbage off people. You take crap off people and they will walk all over you.

I won't be walked on. I deserve better, and will demand such.

Hmmmm, I can see your point, but its like that. If you take a trip around gamespot/gamefags, you'll see taht their community is trash cmpared to ours. When facing diverse communities like ours, you can't expect the same level of maturity you'll find in an office. What I think is your biggest problem is that you are a mature woman with a lot of views, but are facing some younger guys that don't have the same level/train of thought as you. There are probably a lot of 15 year old boys like me.

A few flamers because they don't represent our community, there are actually pretty good members among us (that said, I'm not one of them), and you will probably find friends within some of them if you loosen up a little.

I think you should stay here, maybe not as your active first forum, but visit a while everyday. But if you insist, then I wish you good luck with your new friends at the dingoo forum.

Edit: And yes, like someone said, you gotta learn to ignore some of these people. In larger internet commnities like ours, there are bound to be people who beg to differ from you, you can't stop it.

 

[DozerGuy]

Sweetheart, you'll never make it in this world if you let assholes ruin your mood. thicken up your skin and leave the hating to the haters.

 

[Kalisiin]

Damn, i thought it was boxy news. It sucks that you can't take internet harassment though, how old are you, 12? Sorry, I'll try to be nice, but honestly, sometimes you've just got to ignore it. Trolls like it when people get mad, so dont get mad. Not hard eh?

Maybe if you do not have mental issues, like I do.
I have anger-management issues, and have arrested emotional development.

Chalk it up to be raised by an abusive, alcoholic asshole of a father.

I'm so fucked up I'll never be healed.

I honestly CANNOT take meanness. I've already taken far too much of it in my life.

Physically, i'm 38. Emotionally...yeah, you're probably about right, I'm about 12.

That is what happens when you grow up abused mentally, verbally, physically, emotionally, and sexually...by an alcoholic mother fucker.

It's a miracle I'm at all functional, and not in a room with white walls somewhere.

So just...if ya don't like me...fuckin' have a heart and just lay off or ignore me, okay?

Christ, is it really THAT HARD to be nice instead of being an asshole?

WHY are most people on the Internet such assholes? Is it because they think they are nice, safe, and anonymous?
I just don't get it.

The fuckin' schoolyard bully was never even as bad as some of the assholes on the Net.

And I, for one, do not have the emotional capacity to deal with it.

Which is why the Admins need to step up, do their jobs, and make people stop being mean...or ban THEM.

 

[Kalisiin]

Edit: And yes, like someone said, you gotta learn to ignore some of these people. In larger internet commnities like ours, there are bound to be people who beg to differ from you, you can't stop it.

I wish I could.

I simply am not CAPABLE of it.

I CAN'T ignore what hurts. I've already been hurt too much in life to ignore hurts anymore.

 

[Kalisiin]

Sweetheart, you'll never make it in this world if you let assholes ruin your mood. thicken up your skin and leave the hating to the haters.

You don't get it. i'm not CAPABLE of it any more.

Neither would you be...if your life was the living hell mine has been.

I simply am no longer able to ignore hurts...no matter how small.

It's like when you get punched a hell of a lot, in the same place...over and over.

Eventually...even just being touched there hurts like hell and makes you scream.

That is what it is like for me anymore. I simply have been hurt too much.

 

[elixirdream]

then why not don't give a DAMN about them?
i know it hurts but why take things that serious if you don't like them

 

[Domination]

Hey, its like that on the internet tbh. When your dingoo forum gets even bigger (I'm guessing it isn't small), there would be much more of the flamers, its natural on the internet that people like to voice their views or opposition. Would you quit that forum too? Just don't give a damn. How many people flamed you? Its not even a small fraction of our total community. I know many tempers who are sensible, and only like to clown around sometimes.

But still if you want to leave, I can't stop you. But you should learn to ignore them, that is if you are in the right. If you are in the wrong, just apologize and the people will stop flaming.

 

[Kalisiin]

then why not don't give a DAMN about them?
i know it hurts but why take things that serious if you don't like them

You just simply don't understand.
I have no goddam self-esteem or self-worth left. It's all long ago been taken away from me.

do you not understand I do not have many of the defenses most people have and take for granted?

This is what happens when you grow up abused. You end up like me. Or you end up a totally emotionless robot. Or you end up a mass criminal.

 

[juggernaut911]

We'll let you know when we decide to forego our current forum rules in favor of yours.

You mean...when you decide to be fair Admins, and do your job to stop flamebaiters?

Yeah, well...let me know when that happens, okay?

You should think twice before insulting a well respected member such as Mthrnite.

[BATMAN] And if you like flamebaiters, than you're gonna love me. [/BATMAN]

 

[Kalisiin]

Hey, its like that on the internet tbh. When your dingoo forum gets even bigger (I'm guessing it isn't small), there would be much more of the flamers, its natural on the internet that people like to voice their views or opposition. Would you quit that forum too? Just don't give a damn. How many people flamed you? Its not even a small fraction of our total community. I know many tempers who are sensible, and only like to clown around sometimes.

But still if you want to leave, I can't stop you. But you should learn to ignore them, that is if you are in the right. If you are in the wrong, just apologize and the people will stop flaming.

My issue is more with the Admins who I feel are not fair in dealing with the issue.
They simply refuse to do their job and punish the mean folks...and I know it's true, because they keep going right on being mean...and THEIR hurtful, mean, rotten posts never get deleted...and THEY never go away for a while, so I know they don't get banned.

My issue is that the Admins are just like the teacher in grade school who refuses to see the bully for who he is. And who thusly believes that the VICTIM is the "problem child."

 

[Kalisiin]

We'll let you know when we decide to forego our current forum rules in favor of yours.

You mean...when you decide to be fair Admins, and do your job to stop flamebaiters?

Yeah, well...let me know when that happens, okay?

You should think twice before insulting a well respected member such as Mthrnite.

[BATMAN] And if you like flamebaiters, than you're gonna love me. [/BATMAN]

He should think twice before punishing me for reacting when he fails to do something about the flamebaiters.

It's his JOB to make sure flamebaiters don't get away with it.

I'm only asking the guy to do his job. Instead of just taking the lazy, easy way out, and punishing the victim, and insisting that the victim is the "problem child."

 

[Domination]

Hey, its like that on the internet tbh. When your dingoo forum gets even bigger (I'm guessing it isn't small), there would be much more of the flamers, its natural on the internet that people like to voice their views or opposition. Would you quit that forum too? Just don't give a damn. How many people flamed you? Its not even a small fraction of our total community. I know many tempers who are sensible, and only like to clown around sometimes.

But still if you want to leave, I can't stop you. But you should learn to ignore them, that is if you are in the right. If you are in the wrong, just apologize and the people will stop flaming.

My issue is more with the Admins who I feel are not fair in dealing with the issue.
They simply refuse to do their job and punish the mean folks...and I know it's true, because they keep going right on being mean...and THEIR hurtful, mean, rotten posts never get deleted...and THEY never go away for a while, so I know they don't get banned.

My issue is that the Admins are just like the teacher in grade school who refuses to see the bully for who he is. And who thusly believes that the VICTIM is the "problem child."

To be fair, the admins have much more pressing matters than banning a few members, the running of the site needs much more than just selecting a few options you know. And you have noted yourself that you are sensitive, but some of the posts may have been still borderline acceptable. And I wouldn't use "ban", because I'm sure a lot of us regulars have flamed at least once or twice, even trolling, if they banned a lot of us wouldn't be here.

If you didn't know, the mods did do something. Hadrian did suspend Overlord Nadrian for flaming you... I think.