The title that will be installed during the update are the titles defines in the system tag.
The sysMenu is in this tag (0000000100000002), so it will.
In a future release, you will be able to configure updates separately. For exemple:
This will allow you to choose what to do. I also want to give more options. Becaue actually, this is only yes/no options. Giving choice lists (like drop down lists) will be good.
PS: to validate your xml, use it with the pc tool. If the pc tool accept it, your xml is well formated.