guys vs. girls

[Toni Plutonij]

Well, to be honest, when you get some girls to talk about it, you find out that they really do that a lot, especially with the shower and stuff..
I haven't masturbated in years..I have no need for it any more, but I remember it started with me at age of 7..Some people start a lot later, I guess I was just curious (my body didn't even produce sperm at that time

)..But in my opinion (and from experience) both sexes are equally active in those areas, it's just matter of talk..I never felt comfortable talking about masturbation with any of my (male) friends, but now talking about sex gives me no problem at all!

 

[Maktub]

Well, to be honest, when you get some girls to talk about it, you find out that they really do that a lot, especially with the shower and stuff...

Haha, I was going to say the exactly same thing just to illustrate tiny. I thought it was a little bit off topic tho. But just so you know, tiny: many many of my female girls love to direct the shower stream into their intimate parts.

Also, your friends are very likely lying to you. They might be part of a very reduced number of women around the world who don't masturbate (just as some men don't, either), but not very likely, huh? I mean, not all of them at least, and they all claim they don't masturbate.

Whichever way it is, and even if they didn't really masturbate, I must give you some piece of advice: do as you feel. No one is going to condemn you for doing it, if you're any concerned about that at all (if not, well for you!) and it is something completely natural. Lying is the unnatural, dirty thing. I have some friends who were traumatized because their other friends said they never masturbated and they were like: OMG IM SO KINKY!

Well, hope this is all being of help.

 

[Canonbeat234]

ok so in no way is this a rant about how girls are better than boys or vice versa
its just something i need to know
its kinda odd and perverted (to some degree) so i dont really expect all of you to be serious about it

ok.
why do boys/men/male erm. masturbate and do porno more than girls/women/females?
and dont try to tell me its not true cuz it is
i know very few girls and A LOT of boys
is it because of hormones?
are men more sexually active?
im just curious is all.
and lol like more than half of the boys here look at hentai or w/e so dont try and tell me you have no idea.

Well I'm going to refrain from a lot of stuff I'm about to type since its going to lead into a rant.

For starters, females do attend to lie ALOT. They do this because to keep a high profile about
themselves aka reputation. Males are more open- no wait, more 'loosely' when it comes to chatting
about sex. Like what chick did they bang and etc. Females have their 'little gossip, they do gossip
about sex as much as male does. You just don't hear about it until you're the last person knowing it.

During the PMS, females are more horny at that phase which can explain the mood-swings.
Their secret about what's going behind close-doors is confidential between her and her BFF's.

To me, I don't masturbate and I'm 21. I know its hard to believe but its true, I don't masturbate at all.
I do watch porn though; a bit of fetish videos here and there. The only time I ejaculate is during a wet dream
which doesn't happen very often.

 

[mcjones92]

Hmm, i've never masturbated yet but im probably going to once i learn about it in Sex ED this year. xD my friends say that its really fun. And for porno, i just dont know where to get it. Maybe youtube, but i cant seem to find it. *pst* im 13

you search "porn" bro. The internet is like 50% of that shit.

Youtube doesn't show those videos because it is more of a clean (kinda) website.

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QUOTE(jdbye @ Jan 2 2009, 04:00 PM) it's easier for a woman to get laid than a man.

Yea I wish it was like that for men

jk but it's so true.

 

[Rock Raiyu]

oh so the ratio of women and men who masturbate are about the same
its just that women are more discreet about it?

or im just really sheltered.
cuz seriously.
none of my friends (girls) do that.
and i dont have many guy friends
but i know guys talk about it cuz i hear them -.-
Or they do it but as you and others said they lie and don't tell you the truth.

Yeah, that's probably true. They probably lie because they are ashamed of it or something.

QUOTE(yetbutno @ Jan 2 2009, 03:56 PM)

Hmm, i've never masturbated yet but im probably going to once i learn about it in Sex ED this year. xD my friends say that its really fun. And for porno, i just dont know where to get it. Maybe youtube, but i cant seem to find it. *pst* im 13

you search "porn" bro. The internet is like 50% of that shit.

Youtube doesn't show those videos because it is more of a clean (kinda) website.

You obviously didn't know the internet was made for porn.

 

[mcjones92]

Hmm, i've never masturbated yet but im probably going to once i learn about it in Sex ED this year. xD my friends say that its really fun. And for porno, i just dont know where to get it. Maybe youtube, but i cant seem to find it. *pst* im 13

you search "porn" bro. The internet is like 50% of that shit.

Youtube doesn't show those videos because it is more of a clean (kinda) website.

You obviously didn't know the internet was made for porn.

Your probably right lol.

 

[Toni Plutonij]

Well, to be honest, when you get some girls to talk about it, you find out that they really do that a lot, especially with the shower and stuff...

Haha, I was going to say the exactly same thing just to illustrate tiny. I thought it was a little bit off topic tho. But just so you know, tiny: many many of my female girls love to direct the shower stream into their intimate parts.

Also, your friends are very likely lying to you. They might be part of a very reduced number of women around the world who don't masturbate (just as some men don't, either), but not very likely, huh? I mean, not all of them at least, and they all claim they don't masturbate.

Whichever way it is, and even if they didn't really masturbate, I must give you some piece of advice: do as you feel. No one is going to condemn you for doing it, if you're any concerned about that at all (if not, well for you!) and it is something completely natural. Lying is the unnatural, dirty thing. I have some friends who were traumatized because their other friends said they never masturbated and they were like: OMG IM SO KINKY!

Well, hope this is all being of help.

This is summed up very nicely!!

I agree with everything said! Most likely, your friends are just lying to you, I mean, I see why would they be ashamed of it, but there is really no reason, as he said, it's perfectly natural thing......People have urges, just go with the flow, I don't think that masturbation is against any religion, you aren't cheating on anybody, and you're not doing anything dirty, or against the law..
If you're curious, experiment! You don't need to talk about it

 

[dinofan01]

Well, to be honest, when you get some girls to talk about it, you find out that they really do that a lot, especially with the shower and stuff...

Haha, I was going to say the exactly same thing just to illustrate tiny. I thought it was a little bit off topic tho. But just so you know, tiny: many many of my female girls love to direct the shower stream into their intimate parts.

Also, your friends are very likely lying to you. They might be part of a very reduced number of women around the world who don't masturbate (just as some men don't, either), but not very likely, huh? I mean, not all of them at least, and they all claim they don't masturbate.

Whichever way it is, and even if they didn't really masturbate, I must give you some piece of advice: do as you feel. No one is going to condemn you for doing it, if you're any concerned about that at all (if not, well for you!) and it is something completely natural. Lying is the unnatural, dirty thing. I have some friends who were traumatized because their other friends said they never masturbated and they were like: OMG IM SO KINKY!

Well, hope this is all being of help.

This is summed up very nicely!!

I agree with everything said! Most likely, your friends are just lying to you, I mean, I see why would they be ashamed of it, but there is really no reason, as he said, it's perfectly natural thing......People have urges, just go with the flow, I don't think that masturbation is against any religion, you aren't cheating on anybody, and you're not doing anything dirty, or against the law..
If you're curious, experiment! You don't need to talk about it

dont get me wrong I have the same belief as you in this topic but it does go against religion. Well at least Catholicism. Ill try to recall the exact reason as to why (I haven't heard the reasoning in about 5 years). Gods told us to spread the word and to populate (make babies). Anything that gets in the way of making the baby (condoms, masturbation) is consider sin because you are going against what god asked.

 

[Nathan-NL]

^ I don't think we should rape woman for that stub taken out of the bible while where still a kid, because a kid can't do anything else but masturbate..well that should be the normal way it go's (Like when Toni was 7 years).

A kid of 7 years old wouldn't have any sperm, so he can't make any kid with any women.

Edit: Fixed, sorry for the bad explanation.

 

[dinofan01]

^ I don't think we should rape woman for that rule @ the age of a kid.

what? can you elaborate? I dont understand what your saying.

 

[Sonicslasher]

^ I don't think we should rape woman for that rule @ the age of a kid.

On topic: My dick is hard, therefore, I rub it out. I believe Linkin Park wrote a song about this.

Wasen't the name of the song "rub it out" ?

 

[Toni Plutonij]

dont get me wrong I have the same belief as you in this topic but it does go against religion. Well at least Catholicism. Ill try to recall the exact reason as to why (I haven't heard the reasoning in about 5 years). Gods told us to spread the word and to populate (make babies). Anything that gets in the way of making the baby (condoms, masturbation) is consider sin because you are going against what god asked.
Actually, I'm a Catholic, Christian to be exact, and I had the talk with the priest few years back.....
Masturbation isn't considered a sin in todays society but things that come with it are (porn, dirty thoughts etc.), because thinking like that would mean that wet dreams are against religion as well (but you can't control that)..
Masturbation is fully physical act, it's almost something like a need that has to be done to ease up on the tension in your body..
I really wouldn't call that a sin..

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QUOTE(NavadeHo @ Jan 2 2009, 07:17 PM) ^ I don't think we should rape woman for that rule @ the age of a kid.

what? can you elaborate? I dont understand what your saying.

Haha, he meant that only way to ease up on yourself and not masturbate would be rape!

aka forcing somebody into sex, so no semen would be wasted..

 

[skyman113]

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[Sonicslasher]

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[Nathan-NL]

^ I don't think we should rape woman for that rule @ the age of a kid.

what? can you elaborate? I dont understand what your saying.

Haha, he meant that only way to ease up on yourself and not masturbate would be rape!

aka forcing somebody into sex, so no semen would be wasted..

Lol, I have edited my post

 

[Panzer Tacticer]

Amusing topic.

Ok here's the facts as they are (you can accept them or not, but it doesn't change anything).

Males are more predominantly visually stimulated hence the greater degree in interest in porn (which is visual). Females are more motivated by more intensely emotional stimulus, hence the reason you can sell a lot of romance novels to women, but not to guys.

Jacking off, the term used by anyone not ashamed to calling it more bluntly what it is (as opposed to that funny term fapping, which is really only used so as to not address the matter head on), is often denied by guys simply because a lot of younger males see it as a sign they ain't good enough to get the real deal. It's a dumb idea of course. I jack off fairly frequently, and I'm married and able to get the real deal any time I want it. I've in a lot of cases done it WITH the wife watching simply because a woman CAN enjoying watching something that personal. And you'll find, that your wife will have a spot in her month when she's simply not 'available', and doing it yourself might be all your getting that week eh.
Not all guys are as sexually driven as others though. And you will find that this also applies to women.

Having been sexually active for more years than most of you lot have been breathing, in fact I likely have been married longer than most of you have been alive, I can tell you, porn is entirely fake, artificial to the point of being comical. But it's all about looking at two people supposedly 'doing it'. Frankly I rarely enjoy looking at anything other than females posing solo in a setting that shows them off well. The female form can be incredible art if allowed.

I know of plenty of women that can be said to be as horny as me on my most randy of days when they want to be. But a horny female is not a horny male, and what gets a female off, will not always be even close to what gets a guy off. Men and women are NOT equal, they are entirely different kinds of people.

 

[dinofan01]

Actually, I'm a Catholic, Christian to be exact, and I had the talk with the priest few years back.....
Masturbation isn't considered a sin in todays society but things that come with it are (porn, dirty thoughts etc.), because thinking like that would mean that wet dreams are against religion as well (but you can't control that)..
Masturbation is fully physical act, it's almost something like a need that has to be done to ease up on the tension in your body..
I really wouldn't call that a sin..
It actually is a sin; well at least towards for Catholics. Remember not all Christians are catholic.
Cathechisim of the Catholic Church2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."138 "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."139

Source
Its considered an offense against chastity (no sex till marriage). As you know chastity in more then expected in a devout catholic.

 

[Toni Plutonij]

*snip

Well, I guess I have to admit I was wrong

actually, the pries I talked to was wrong!!

Anyways, stuff like that really makes me want to go against the Church completely, I hate when they want to control everything!!
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with masturbation, and anyone curious should experiment and find out about his body! You can learn about your body a lot more by yourself then at some class!

 

[dinofan01]

*snip

Well, I guess I have to admit I was wrong

actually, the pries I talked to was wrong!!

Anyways, stuff like that really makes me want to go against the Church completely, I hate when they want to control everything!!
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with masturbation, and anyone curious should experiment and find out about his body! You can learn about your body a lot more by yourself then at some class!

I completely agree with you. I agree with alot of the church teachings (be good to your neighbors, live a good life) but I just dont like the church. I would go into more why but I dont want this to turn into a rant. I like the thread continue with its primary purpose; helping tiny realize why everyone on the temp is a perv.