I am trying to be more positive in life, but I also cannot deny reality. I want to be compassionate, but also try to help people make better decisions.
I think "fat acceptance" is one of the worst ideas ever. There is no way anyone can argue that being obese increases your health risks.
Societal definitions of beauty will always exist. No way around it. Most societies do not deem being fat to be sexy. Trying to FORCE people to view something they find to not just be unacceptable, but repulsive, is wrong. Can't force people to like something.
You can't try to punish someone for not liking fat people. Being fat is a choice, and some people simply don't respect other folks who can't put down the fork, and that's OKAY.
If you want your body to be respected, understand that society DOES have beauty standards, and don't get mad at the WHOLE WORLD because you chose Twinkies over a treadmill, and because of that, no one wants to smooch.
If it's a problem YOU caused, and it only affects YOU, it is not society's burden to coddle you and make you feel better about your own personal decisions.
You can choose your taste buds and weak will, or a healthy diet and an attractive body. You can even have both if you work hard enough.
Yep! A lot of folks I know have a beer gut, 'cause all they do is hit their 9 to 5 and then lay on couch for rest of the day. Meanwhile I'm there hitting the gym 4 times a week, practicing target shooting and hiking(not a pro or anything, just putting my old hunting Beretta clothing
https://gritroutdoors.com/beretta/ usually and hitting nearby trails on weekends).