And men and women are both needed for any species to survive so it's not grooming, it's nature.
It is grooming and you're jumping to a lot of conclusions thinking that I would all want them to die by suicide or whatever, which I don't.
Let me get this straight.
One is kissing, the other is also kissing.
In which way is that grooming? they're both kissing. they're both human. They're both doing the exact same action. This is mental gymnastics. I did not ask about "men and women needed for any species to reproduce" which by the way single cell organisms and any creature that can reproduce without a male would like to have a word with you.
I straight up pointed out the double standard that one kiss is "grooming", and the other isn't. Kissing is not how we reproduce by the way.