So what was supposed to be the best night of my life turned into the worst

Only one thing to say to that

So first she dumped you for a guy, then it didn't work out with the guy so she wanted back with you, you took her back, and now this?

Time to get rid of that toxic piece of shit in your life. You will grow stronger each passing day without her. Sure it's going to be tough right in the beginning, but it passes more quickly than you would imagine.

My advice is to tell her to fuck off, and you should find someone else. Best medicine for me has always been finding someone new.

Don't kill yourself over another persons stupidity.

"No I'm not going bi. I'm happy with who I am and not going to change that."
well you can't change your sexual orientation, so there's that.

But seriously, don't kill yourself. there is always someone that will find a certain charm in you. might take a while, but she will come. one day.
You don't have to have a girlfriend at all times. I don't. Neither girlfriend nor boyfriend. Try to be independent. Feel the greatness in yourself. it's always there. you just have to look for it.
At some point, you will find Her. The perfect girl. She'll love you the same way you love her.
I've considered suicide, but there's always something to do, even if it is just staying at home and solely listening to music. listening to lots of music might help. it does for me

Kill her instead (don't really..).

But we tried to tell ya.

I hope you learned a valuable lesson. Never give second chances in a relationship. A couple of people here told you to not give her a second chance but the majority convinced you to give her that second chance so here you are again. Sorry if this sounded harsh but when a person breaks off a relationship for a comment you made it shows you that, that person doesn't care a whole lot about you and to them you are just backup so they won't be lonely. Forgot to mention don't take your life. Taking your life is never an option, especially for something like this.

I don't know if you like this type of music, but at least the lyrics is pretty great


Baby, if you're done with love, who's gonna hold you tonight?
Are you done with love so they can't hurt you tomorrow?
You don't wanna keep on swimming in the ocean you've cried
But I won't let you drown, I'll pull you back to the shallow

Cause all I ever really wanted
In this short life was you
Tell me who took your heart away
And do you know it breaks mine when I hear you say
That you're done with love?
Oh, you are done with love


Give me one night to mend the pain
Because the second we touch, you'll forget the day
You were done with love
Oh, you were done with love

All I ever really wanted
In this short life was you
All I ever really wanted
In this short life was you


If you're done with love


You think you're done with love
You think you're done with love
You think you're done with love
You think you're done with love

Suiciding is like letting them win now why do that...

Two or three weeks ago I was talking to some guy on Omegle (really weird chatting website) and he told me his friend who was bullied hanged himself. Suicide is never the solution regardless of what you read on the internet as you're taking your own life and you were given the privilege of being born so make it count!

Life is to be enjoyed.

Btw, before yesterday I was also chatting to a supposed 25 year old girl from Denmark which I told her that I don't feel safe outside with people that could commit an atrocity at any moment and she told me something like "you cannot stop fate, if it comes to kill you then you can't stop it." damn. I disconnected after that and that message didn't get out of my head for a day.

@MsMidnight
Please Do not think about suicide, Think about the life you'll live. Just cause you started dating that girl is because you thought she's perfect and thought she really loved you. No, find someone else who has the same interests as you!! but if you can't, us tempers got you @MsMidnight.

How's it going, by the way? Do you feel any better?

its like yolo, you get one chance to live. do not end it @MsMidnight

fiancée? how old are you?

@aljpn91 I'm 17

Shit msmidnight, youre too young to be getting tied down anyway. Go play the field for a while.

Please don't kill yourself... please. When I'm really upset, I just crack open Spotify and start listening. Listen to music to assuage the pain.

@WeedZ what sucks is that i've known her since we were kids

That is the reason, the childhood-friend route is always a lie. (goes back to his cave)

17? isn't that a bit too early to start thinking about getting married?
the problem here's that you tricked yourself into thinking she was the love of your life and that you were going to stay together forever, when the thruth is that things not always go the way we expect them to
life gives us many lessons, and this was just one of the many that are still to come

@MsMidnight I know young love seems so important, but as you get older you'll realise it never lasts. Even if you two got married and spent a few years together you would eventually drift apart. That's because, at 17, you still have alot of growing and maturing to do. So does she. In time you guys would grow into completely different people. After some life experience the right one will come along, and when she does, you'll see why it could have never worked. Right now it seems the world is falling apart, trust me, I know how that is. Just tough it out, I promise, great things are ahead.

That doesn't make hurting your feelings acceptable. Romance and prior friendships mixed is a loaded gun.