My life is hell

You're 13, hard to look good at that age when you have no man in you yet, or much anyways. Another thing, sounds like you have self-esteem issues, I suggest you do something about that. Like working out

I have no girlfriend, am really ugly and am weak

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that fixes most of your problems. Haha

[quote name='omgpwn666' date='Aug 5 2010, 02:34 PM' post='3027763']
Another thing, sounds like you have self-esteem issues, I suggest you do something about that. Like working out

or deal with it like ugly chicks do and get real slutty.


i wouldn't worry about it at your age. some guys become attractive when they get older. if you don't, plenty of fine looking chicks go for ugly guys, i see it all the time. it helps to have a big penis tho.

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hmm this is quite the rant post but you need to look up your life isnt really that bad:
1.im 18 and have NEVER! had a girl friend (calm down your only 13)
2. parents split up all the time a split up family isnt a "broken" one just request more time with your mum, if you cant then your going to realise that some people arnt meant to be together (like your mum and dad) and its un fair to not let them see new people and meet the "one"
3.i see that clearly your sister doesnt get along with your dad but is she a "teen" if so then its pretty normal iv had moments like that with my family believe me YOU WILL GET OVER IT
4. FFS!! you think getting a ps3 bought for you is a bad thing ?? it might be out of spite but its still a ps3, there are people on this forum who could never afford a ps3 and would love to take it of your hands ?

i suggest you visit the "blogs" section of this forum and read up on people who have much more severe problems in their lives ?

It's really not that bad. I'm 13, I have OCD, I have no girlfriend or boyfriend (nor do I really care), I'm weak, my sister suffers from Bipolar disorder, and my father died when I was 1 and a half. You just gotta find the good in life. Go hang out with some friends, play a good game, etc.

You sound like the typical middle school kid:

"I need to work out every waking moment of my life so I can be cool!"
"I need a girlfriend so I can be cool, even though we would probably only hang out in school!"
"I like to have pity parties when people buy me stuff because I think it's really for another reason!"
"I hate my parents because they bought me a PS3 and I know all about what's going on between them, so I need to get involved and act like I should just kill myself."

You seriously remind me of my neighbor who gets whatever he wants, and despite having a girlfriend, thinks his life is shit. His parents fight, but it has nothing to do with him. He always tries to argue alongside them, and ends up getting yelled at. Gee, I wonder why...

EDIT: As for me, I'm 18, I have no girlfriend, I'm fat, my parents are divorced, we live on Foodstamps and Welfare checks (I'm not joking either. We get around $600 a month total from Welfare, and like $400 in Foodstamps). That's just for the necessities though, so we don't have much left for entertainment like going on vacation and whatnot. I do get nice things, but that's for Christmas and my birthday, or if I buy it with my own money.

So yeah, I do reckon my life is worse than yours, but I've been able to see through the bad and look at the great stuff I have in life, like an Xbox 360, PSP, DS, laptop, HDTV, and friends. I don't hate my family that much, but we have our differences. It's life, and bad times are bound to come for everyone.

People worried about girlfriends when they were 13? Hell I don't even remember when I worried about when I was 13, but women wasn't at the top of my list.

I know the whole divorced parents thing. My parents split up a few years ago, I don't remember how many years now. My dad came out of the closet and there was some verbal fighting and it did hurt but in the end they ended up happy separate. They talk together and what not. I used to see my dad a lot, like 3 days a week, but now he had to move to New York to live with his partner after he lost his job and couldn't afford an apartment down here. I see him maybe once a month now.

I wouldn't say my situation is as bad as yours but I can give some advice.

1) Divorce isn't bad. I mean yeah it sucks but eventually you adapt to it. Considering most marriages end in divorce it's commonplace nowadays.
2) Don't worry about women at this age. I'm 17 now and single. I could go on about my ventures with women but regardless to say I haven't had much in the way of girlfriends. Eventually during your own ventures you'll find someone who you're truly smitten for and you'll learn there's a difference between lovestruck and in love.
3) You can voice your opinion. If you tell your parents the fighting is slowly hurting your soul or whatever you wish to call it then hopefully they'll silently hate each other and realize in the end you (and your sister) come first.

Not much I can do to help though.

At least no one's dead. Wait until that happens, then come back and complain.

[quote name='Guild McCommunist' post='3027788' date='Aug 5 2010, 11:47 PM']People worried about girlfriends when they were 13? Hell I don't even remember when I worried about when I was 13, but women wasn't at the top of my list.

I know the whole divorced parents thing. My parents split up a few years ago, I don't remember how many years now. My dad came out of the closet and there was some verbal fighting and it did hurt but in the end they ended up happy separate. They talk together and what not. I used to see my dad a lot, like 3 days a week, but now he had to move to New York to live with his partner after he lost his job and couldn't afford an apartment down here. I see him maybe once a month now.

I wouldn't say my situation is as bad as yours but I can give some advice.

1) Divorce isn't bad. I mean yeah it sucks but eventually you adapt to it. Considering most marriages end in divorce it's commonplace nowadays.
2) Don't worry about women at this age. I'm 17 now and single. I could go on about my ventures with women but regardless to say I haven't had much in the way of girlfriends. Eventually during your own ventures you'll find someone who you're truly smitten for and you'll learn there's a difference between lovestruck and in love.
3) You can voice your opinion. If you tell your parents the fighting is slowly hurting your soul or whatever you wish to call it then hopefully they'll silently hate each other and realize in the end you (and your sister) come first.

Not much I can do to help though.[/quote]

[quote name='Guild McCommunist' post='3027788' date='Aug 5 2010, 05:47 PM']You can voice your opinion. If you tell your parents the fighting is slowly hurting your soul or whatever you wish to call it then hopefully they'll silently hate each other and realize in the end you (and your sister) come first.[/quote]
that part was beautiful

My life isn't worse, but I can easily name 3 friends of mine with lives way worse. Like "how the hell do you get through the day" bad.

Anyways, ugly guys get chicks all the time. If you're confident about yourself and not a terrible person to be around, you can easily get a girl. Hot ones included.
If you don't mope around, talk down to yourself, and all that. You'll be fine.
Though, wait till you're older, jesus. I still think highschool is too early, but honestly, worry about a GF around 16 at the earliest. Highschool relationships usually turn into highschool drama.

Being weak also doesn't mean much. Unless you want to do stuff that requires strength. (ya wanna be a blacksmith one day?)
I attracted girls because i'm strong as hell, but they're always complete idiots. Strength really doesn't mean a lot to a lot of the worthwhile girls.
Besides attracting girls, I can't see why you'd actually want to be strong lol. It's just a pain in the ass >_> People expect a lot from you. That 'a lot' generally boils down to lifting a lot of heavy shit.

Parents splitting up sucks, but honestly you're probably a majority now. So many parents split up these days.
Getting a PS3 out of a stupid fight is a pretty good deal. The court thing really isn't a big deal. Though, it probably kinda sucks if you liked your sister and wont be able to see her much.

umm... a few things:
- i never had a girlfriend and guess what, i'm older than you xD.
- ugly and weak eh? there's a reason for that and i'll give you the reason later.
- divorce, yeah we know it's bad . but at least you can actually see your parents , not everyone who's parents get a divorce can be seen as much as you do .
- the sister + father fight then moving out . it is bad i'd say , but just find ways to talk to her / meet her .
- the PS3 may have been to cope with all the sadness . seeing as there are so many problems in your life , your dad might be thinking oh he needs to keep up and think of something else . then there it is, the PS3 is there for that .

anyway, the answer is that you are 13 . you are still a teenager and with the 5 years of getting older and being 18 a LOT of stuff can happen . puberty is gonna hit you and you'll change . your voice, appearance [even if it isn't major, it can change minor], and actions will change. it's not like things are gonna happen in an instant, you gotta act and choose your own actions if you want these things to actually happen . so how about you try to do some morning cycling, or get into a sport team . play some games, find a new game that'll interest you a LOT . just get your mind off of it and relax.

you are 13 and still classed as a child, enjoy your childhood, don't think you want to grow up too fast, you will have plenty of time to date girls and such, enjoy your ps3 that seems to be the only good thing in your life atm.

divorce is a horrible thing to experience, as i grew up i had to watch relatives go through divorce myself, i hope you get through everything ok, good luck.

Believe me, your life is not hell. I've experienced so many deaths, I can't even feel sad anymore.

thanks guys, I feel a bit better. I'll make another one of these depending on how life turns out for me in a couple of years!

Hang out with your friends more

that's what got me through most of my childhood drama's

ignore such issues, shit happens, people come and go, things change, yet at least at the end of the day the most important thing is that your still around.

mine's worse. MY dad went to the United States, secretly married a friend of my aunt, and had a child. Just new it a few months ago.

No girlfriend at 13?? Seriously?? What are the standards nowadays? 13 is not a good time for having a relationship. You should know that

[quote name='gifi4' post='3027754' date='Aug 5 2010, 06:30 PM']Well I'm only 13 years old, I have no girlfriend, am really ugly and am weak. (straight btw)
thats only the basic stuff, My parents recently split up and I only see my mum 2 days a week then my sister and dad got into a punch on and ended up going to court, neither got charged but then they seem to be getting closer and suddenly have another fight, no police but my sister ended up moving out then my dad buys me a PS3, you might think that it is a good thing but I think it's just to piss my sister and mum off because he rarely bought me anything before.

So if you reckon your life is worse or want to post, go ahead.[/quote]


Sorry to hear about things. Inexcusable when parents can't just accept they no longer like each other, but then start using the kids as tools.

Seen this happen with my sister and her two daughters. Her ex, worthless waste of skin, is not 100% guilty though. Sister reaches her 30s and thinks dang, not finding mr right soon enough, and decides well I still want kids. So you guessed it her current boyfriend gets to be a sperm donor (without asking him in advance). Now sister is cool enough to tell him 'you can walk, no strings attached no obligations later'. He takes a pass and knocks her up a second time. Ok dumb ass you had your chance eh.

But the way he treats his second daughter, frankly if I meet him alone on a dark street, he gets hospitalized. Inexcusable behaviour.
His first daughter turns her back on my sister, and only returns after she finally gets a brain when in late teens and her dad finally has had enough USE of her fucking up my sisters life in one court battle after another (over custody) he kicks her out of his place. You see he gets another woman, and she gives him a son, and now he no longer needs her. And at 18 she's no longer a custody issue.

My sister is hardly responsible for most of his actions, but she has her own responsibilities to the situation. The younger of the two girls though is 100% innocent and never deserved the treatment she got.

So yeah, being 13 might to some seem like your life could hardly be all bad, but, having your family ripped apart, how can life be any worse eh?

But don't sweat the girl friend stuff eh. Shit your barely old enough to even get real use out of a girlfriend yet
And your appearance? hell you will change quite a lot in the next few years young man. I'd not get to flustered just yet.

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Everyone should shut the fuck up about how their life is worse, it's not like it's a contest or anything. It also depends from person to person and how that person experiences it. It can be something that doesn't seem very serious but in his eyes it fucking sucks ass. It's him that experiences HIS emotions, not you guys.

Just how I think about the whole situation...

[quote post='3027754' date='Aug 5 2010, 11:30 PM']So if you reckon your life is worse or want to post, go ahead.[/quote]

[quote name='XLarge' post='3028877' date='Aug 6 2010, 03:32 PM']Everyone should shut the fuck up about how their life is worse, it's not like it's a contest or anything. It also depends from person to person and how that person experiences it. It can be something that doesn't seem very serious but in his eyes it fucking sucks ass. It's him that experiences HIS emotions, not you guys.[/quote]

You may have misread that part of the OP