Just whatever

So, what started off as a little thing a co-worker/friend said to me one day has become a rule for me to live by. It's kinda like saying "go with the flow" in a much less intellectual manner. Regardless of how you say it, just whatever is a good way to live your life, if only for a moment. For the past weeks I've been minorly depressed (girl issues) then I got to thinking, "Hey, I'm a high schooler, I've got a whole lotta life in front of me, so just whatever." Now the day I thought I'd be most depressed (Valentines day), I'm incredibly chill. Especially considering the fact that the girl I like (who has a boyfriend) basically told me she was gonna have sex tonite with him. And you know what, there's nothing I can do about it right now, so just whatever.

To make this a useful blog post, I'll make it either a teaching lesson :teach: as in "hey, live life just whatever"...

or I'll ask you, fellow tempers, how do you live your life? Do you always take charge? Do you lay back and go with the flow? I'd like to know.

PS: I don't smoke pot, I'm just pretty chill.

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I used to be all full out "take charge and go get'em". (like 2005-2008) But after some very aggravating lows I've since realized the same thing you did. That's many things really aren't worth my time, lol. I, for the most part, have a "go with the flow" attitude but I do things when things should be done, etc.

Being overstressed/depressed over small things really can get to people, yeah.

But life's good, for multitudes of reasons.
 
[quote name='Twiffles' post='2599817' date='Feb 14 2010, 11:16 PM']I used to be all full out "take charge and go get'em". (like 2005-2008) But after some very aggravating lows I've since realized the same thing you did. That's many things really aren't worth my time, lol. I, for the most part, have a "go with the flow" attitude but I do things when things should be done, etc.

Being overstressed/depressed over small things really can get to people, yeah.

But life's good, for multitudes of reasons.[/quote]
I've had quite a few aggravating "lows" as well. Eventually I attempt to put it all behind me (and just live with minimal grief) and keep charging forward.
 
ROFL @ Jamstruth

There's a girl in my class that always tells me when, how, where, etc she had sex or similar with her boyfriend :wtf: I keep telling her to STFU about it, but she never stops D:
 
[quote name='bnwchbammer' post='2599808' date='Feb 15 2010, 08:07 AM']how do you live your life?[/quote]

Well, somewhat go with the flow, but I'm kind of down lately. :S Maybe because the last few weekend nothing really hapenned and i didn't went to a club.
 
[quote name='Hoverlord Nadrian' post='2600242' date='Feb 15 2010, 02:40 PM']There's a girl in my class that always tells me when, how, where, etc she had sex or similar with her boyfriend :wtf: I keep telling her to STFU about it, but she never stops D:[/quote]
Hadrian, you are considered: Gay Friend. Safe to talk about sex and boys too without having her tits stared at the whole time/ignored :D
 
[quote name='Jamstruth' post='2600356' date='Feb 15 2010, 04:54 PM'][quote name='Hoverlord Nadrian' post='2600242' date='Feb 15 2010, 02:40 PM']There's a girl in my class that always tells me when, how, where, etc she had sex or similar with her boyfriend :wtf: I keep telling her to STFU about it, but she never stops D:[/quote]
Hadrian, you are considered: Gay Friend. Safe to talk about sex and boys too without having her tits stared at the whole time/ignored :D
[/quote]
Ack, I'm not Hadrian! When will you learn!?

Anyways, lol.
 
I am now a depressed person, since I always seem to fail at everything (yes, I have girl issues. The soulless metalhead has girl issues. Happy now?)
 
[quote name='bnwchbammer' post='2599808' date='Feb 15 2010, 02:07 AM']how do you live your life?[/quote]
I do anything I have to, most of the things other people want me to, and almost none of the things I want to.

As a solution of sorts, I started doing things out of spite (so long as they aren't too far out of my way).

It's going pretty okay.
 

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