FREAKING SISTER PISSES ME OFF~!

GOD~ She is pissing me off all the time. Everywhere I go, everything I do, is like wrong to her.

From getting that cellphone, the MP3 player and now the ice cream.

She is always against everything I do. Nothing I do is ever right to her. She will always contradict everything that I done by me.

Getting a phone, she says that I don't deserve it.

The Zen MP3 player, she calls it a waste of money. Well look at her, she is the one who bought a iTouch when she could've got something that was cheaper and did almost everything an iTouch could~!

Now I got Vanilla ice cream, she started getting all mad on how we got it somewhere else instead of a grocery store. Sure it was cheaper, but then after, it was either eating some ice cream that I HATE so I chose to ask to get vanilla. Instead, when we came back with it, she starts giving me dirty looks, and a FREAKING sick attitude. And we couldn't go back to the grocery store for just ice cream.

Now it is honestly getting me mad and annoyed. After all, I have already done so many things for her and still she never respects me with my choices.

I sometimes wish I was either not here and sometimes feel like I want to run away from home. Just leave her here and I should just run away. I would never do that, but sometimes I just feel I should...

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[quote name='Linkiboy' post='1999965' date='May 24 2009, 01:13 PM']Slap her, and tell her to stop acting like a bitch.[/quote]
+1. seriously.
 
I can't do that... She is gonna tell my parents and I am just gonna end up losing my own stuff... And gonna get yelled at... most likely lose my current computer... And it is faster than anything in my house... (Pentium 4 3.4GHz i think... don't really remember)

I would've sweared at her and yelled so loud, but that'll just get my in trouble. Just like before.
 
I know what you're going through, no matter what you do it's never good enough for your sister. I had that problem but since I got even it ended like 5 years of hatred towards me and now she's scared of her little brother XD but like your situation i have no friggin idea why the hell they act like this. When i look at my friends and their siblings they're like best friends! soz i can't help but my sis was all mouth so i got pissed off and threw her stuff in the bin XD tbh it was a pretty crap revenge for everything she's put me through but it stopped her.
 
Ignore her, even if she complains about things, just don't show her any attention at all. Yes i know its hard, and sometimes you can loose your cool, but just bottle it up. Stay passive, and soon or later she will respect you for being who you are and what you do, because she will realize that no matter how much she complains, or yells, or insults, it wont change the way you do things. Worked like a charm with my younger brother, not sure about sisters though :S
 
I have tried that. I guess someone does understand me. She is just being a pain my life. She is my older sister too... Always gets what she wants. Being the middle child seems to be the hardest to me. The older ones bosses your around and the younger one is the spoiled one.

But honestly, I have tried everything, but she just doesn't give me any respect at all. I find it pretty sad, since other siblings are always nice to each other. My sister always acts this way. When her friends come over, she trys to be either funny or cool just by annoying me. Like when it was lunch one of her friends came over to my house early and then it was lunch. Everyone was taking from the middle plate of rice while me, I chose to go directly to the rice cooker. She was just like "You think you are all cool now?" and she says that all the time when ever I do something different then everyone else.

It makes me sick, since my parents never believe my side of the story. It is always her who always wins in fights. When my parents try to settle it, I try to explain my side of the story but they just don't take it and just believe my sister's side of the story.

She twists hers around and makes it sound like I am the horrible person who started, and messed it up. She says she does things and say it in a nicer way? Well you know what, half the story has been edited into her way of making it seem like I am the bad guy. I never point these things out since I always end up getting into all the trouble. What's the point? It is not like they are gonna listen to me...
 
I think see needs a slot 1 solution and if she is very bitchy also a slot 2, after that,see will never complain again ;p you know this is a gba forum after all ;-)
 
Right now, I can't even feel myself breathing with all the crying I am letting out. Keeping all of it in, jst typing these things out make my sad on how she doesnt respect me. I have already lost my cool and I just can't seem to keep it in. Tried but next time I am gonna try and keep it in.

Telling to my parents won't work since as I have said before, she always wins. They never believe my side of the story...
 
[quote name='Splych' post='2000007' date='May 24 2009, 07:30 PM']Right now, I can't even feel myself breathing with all the crying I am letting out. Keeping all of it in, jst typing these things out make my sad on how she doesnt respect me. I have already lost my cool and I just can't seem to keep it in. Tried but next time I am gonna try and keep it in.

Telling to my parents won't work since as I have said before, she always wins. They never believe my side of the story...[/quote]

why not record hidden video ? lol

throw pokeball :P
 
Don't own a camera. And it still seems pretty stupid. I am just gonna go do my homework and practice C-Walking the my basement. Clown Walking not crip walking xDD.

Just gonna avoid thinking about this for now, but it felt nice since I could finally let out my feelings.
 
send her to me, i will take care of her by myself :creep:

seriously just ignore her
how old is your sister? and your age?
 
Mine used to do the same thing, just tell her to grow the fuck up.

Although she once got one of her friends to flash her tits at me, so I guess it wasn't all bad.
 
First lesson: she'll always act like a tit in front of her friends. Always. When her friends turn up just get out the way.

If she's taking favours for granted then just do the bare minimum you can to get the job done, don't go overboard or pour hours in if you feel it's not worth it.

Looking at the price and features iTouch > Zen = no. You've won this one, she can say whatever she wants it just proves that she's a bit thick. Snigger quietly and move on.

And let her buy her own damn ice cream.

Seriously it's not worth getting to wound up over, it's not worth it. You just need to figure out how to cope.
 
I don't want to say the age but we have an age difference of... 3 years. I got my cool back, so I can live. But one thing I know is that we are both under 18. That is all I am gonna say.

Law, she'll say the same thing back at me. She'll just say "You grow up. You are the one who always starts all this crap..."

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Back at C-Walking... The very first move you learn is so hard *_*. The "V"...
 
quick question... what's an iTouch?

I have an iPod Touch... is it close to that? I also have a Zen Vision:M...

I prefer my Zen to the iPod any day... 8gig for $250, or 30gig for $130... big choice there...

no WiFi/apps on my Zen, but it's an MP3 player!
 
[quote name='Splych' post='2000041' date='May 24 2009, 06:54 PM']I don't want to say the age but we have an age difference of... 3 years. I got my cool back, so I can live. But one thing I know is that we are both under 18. That is all I am gonna say.

Law, she'll say the same thing back at me. She'll just say "You grow up. You are the one who always starts all this crap..."[/quote]

If she does say that, then it will just prove which of you is the most childish. Just ignore her for a few weeks if she decides to use such a lame comeback.

Also aren't you like, 13? 3 years difference, 16 year old sister?
 
You just need some leverage over her. Stand up for yourself and next time she wants a favor from her, just tell her no. and tell her why. If she can control herself and be nice to her, reward her by being nice back and doing things for her again.

She is walking all over you because she can and because you let her. Once she finds out that she cant get away with treating you that way without consequences, she will change.
 
Yea iPod Touch. I am not much of a fan... Who wants to use internet on such a small screen? Might as well just get myself a netbook... I got myself a Zen and I think it pwns the iPod anyday. My friend is a huge apple fan and says so himself that the Zen's interface beats the iPod's (I think he was referring to the iPod Touch/Phone. Since he has one)

Law... Stop doing Math at a time like this xDD. And right now, she is being ignored. I am just gonna go play some games now...

Haha. I lool'ed at how a site tried to get me to install a virus. Luckily for Google Chrome, it didn't do it instantly. And how did I know... It was all on one webpage. I minimized it, and i just saw my desktop. And was pretty obvious since I had my Zen plugged in... So yea...

EDIT: Thanks for the help guys. It is really getting me thinking that most of the problem happening are because of me. Since my temper always lead to fights. But sometimes, I just can't handle it since my sister always acts like she can do what ever she wants over me.
 
She's part of your family and you should love her even if she disrespects or acts out towards you.
Maybe if you show her kindness and disreguard her negative actions towards you, you'll gain a better relationship.
It can't be said that you two wont fight now and then but you should be the bigger person and not let her get the best of you.

Instead of getting into an argument/rage when she says certaing things, try blowing them off as if they weren't a big deal. Don't let things escalate and stop any negativity from happening as soon as possible. Stick with a positive attitude and don't let her bring you away from that.

You got your whole life to live, and you shouldn't let one person ruin it for ya!
And believe it or not but your sister probably doesn't hate you and deep down she cares for ya.

So next time something happens be the bigger person, make light of what she says and although you think it might kill you to do this, you should be kind and caring towards her. You should tell her that you love and respect her and that you wish to be friends rather than enemies. She'll probably be very happy to hear that from you.

You shouldn't have to hate someone in your family. Your lucky to even have a sibling.

~Hopefully some of this gets ya thinking and helps you out with your situation.
Good Luck!
 

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