Hi people,
I am currently a little bit unsure of what to think, my Dad is chain smoker and alcohol addict and can't even leave his flat anymore as he can hardly move ... as bad as it is everything seems "okay".
Even though I moved back closer to his place (~15km) I still need to work most of the day and don't have a car so I can not and actually even don't want to go there very often (he wasn't allways really nice thanks to beeing an alcoholic) so I am rather Happy that my Uncle does pretty much everything for him but that seems to become a problem as my Uncle has access to every bank account and everything.
As far as I know he didn't took aynthing withouth ma dad knowing BUT he already got my fathers Car (for free) and he asked for 3000€ (or was it 5k?) for a Motorbike which he got (first it was only lend then my father was like "he is the only one helping me so he doesn't have to pay it back) and now we asked my father about his e-bike because he is not using it ... he said we could have it then we asked my uncle who has it right now and he told us he has no time so we can not get it .... 2 weeks later he told me my dad offered it to him which he accepted well knowing that we asked for it first (I guess he probably talked my dad into giving it to him ....)
So he got a used Car probably worth at least 1000€ maybe more as it was freshly trough all checkups then he got a new? motorbike for 3000€/5000€ and now the ebike that was bought for 3000€
I don't really care that much about money and I am happy that he is helping my dad but this is getting fishy and my girlfriend also said that even though she also is happy about his help, he seems to use the situation very well in his own favour
I am thinking of asking my dad to make a proper will as I am a little bit scared that everything will be gone sooner or later and I won't be able to prove if it was a loan or a present for helping, plus my dad seems to be easily manipulated
I am currently a little bit unsure of what to think, my Dad is chain smoker and alcohol addict and can't even leave his flat anymore as he can hardly move ... as bad as it is everything seems "okay".
Even though I moved back closer to his place (~15km) I still need to work most of the day and don't have a car so I can not and actually even don't want to go there very often (he wasn't allways really nice thanks to beeing an alcoholic) so I am rather Happy that my Uncle does pretty much everything for him but that seems to become a problem as my Uncle has access to every bank account and everything.
As far as I know he didn't took aynthing withouth ma dad knowing BUT he already got my fathers Car (for free) and he asked for 3000€ (or was it 5k?) for a Motorbike which he got (first it was only lend then my father was like "he is the only one helping me so he doesn't have to pay it back) and now we asked my father about his e-bike because he is not using it ... he said we could have it then we asked my uncle who has it right now and he told us he has no time so we can not get it .... 2 weeks later he told me my dad offered it to him which he accepted well knowing that we asked for it first (I guess he probably talked my dad into giving it to him ....)
So he got a used Car probably worth at least 1000€ maybe more as it was freshly trough all checkups then he got a new? motorbike for 3000€/5000€ and now the ebike that was bought for 3000€
I don't really care that much about money and I am happy that he is helping my dad but this is getting fishy and my girlfriend also said that even though she also is happy about his help, he seems to use the situation very well in his own favour
I am thinking of asking my dad to make a proper will as I am a little bit scared that everything will be gone sooner or later and I won't be able to prove if it was a loan or a present for helping, plus my dad seems to be easily manipulated