Thanks for the reply.
No, the SD reader doesn't recognice my setup at all, and windiskimager32 can't find anything to read, either.
Can this be caused by incompatible SD card reader? Cause I haven't tested this reader with 3ds dumps before, so can't say it's a working device for sure. It's an old HP laptop with built-in texas instruments smart card reader if that does matter.
To sum up, the 3ds boots normally to main menu with the SD adapter part disconnected (suppose that's ok), and gets that one bootrom error mentioned above when it's booted when connected to a card reader, and computer doesn't recognize anything in the card reader slot. And I'm pretty sure the wiring is correct now, continuity tests pass, used exactly the same pin layout as mentioned earlier in this thread etc.
E: Used this sd card layout (the actual photo, not the drawing), with the DAT0 at pin #7, CND#6, CLK #5, CMD #3
Do you see something obviously wrong with this? I was a bit confused with the CMD wire, cause it looks to me it's different here in the drawing and the photo..?
Can provide an image of my PCB layout, too, if needed. Usb pin order doesn't matter as long as the PCB and SD ends are correct, I suppose.
E: I have it like this.