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[princess_snezy]

its worth trying rather than wondering

oh well

oh well what?

 

[[M]artin]

lawl check my new topic hahaa

 

[princess_snezy]

artin @ Sep 15 2007, 02:18 AM)]

lawl check my new topic hahaa

right on!

hai5

 

[yus786]

its worth trying rather than wondering

oh well

oh well what?

oh well meaning i tried asking if your teh hot rather than wondering

 

[princess_snezy]

its worth trying rather than wondering

oh well

oh well what?

oh well meaning i tried asking if your teh hot rather than wondering

i dont know wat you mean by are the hot i cant really say yeah im hot cos that would just sound conceited

 

[yus786]

its worth trying rather than wondering

oh well

oh well what?

oh well meaning i tried asking if your teh hot rather than wondering

i dont know wat you mean by are the hot i cant really say yeah im hot cos that would just sound conceited

oh thanks, was only messing anyway, no offence intended

 

[Pigwooly]

If she says no, the worst she can do is give a stupid reason such as "you're ugly" or "I don't date losers", etc. In that case you're probably wasting your time on her.
If it's a reason, like she has a boyfriend, or she has too much going on in her life, etc. In that case, if you really think it's worth it, wait it out and just try to get closer to her in your friendship until she's ready.
If she's happily married/engaged, then there's almost nothing you can do.

Or are you afraid she'll say yes?
In that case you need to be asking for tips on the actual dating, and not asking someone out.

This is good advice. Further advice, if she says no, just laugh it off and keep on with the conversation like it's no big deal. This will allow you to stay friends with her without it getting to awkward (assuming you two are friends). She'll also know you're interested, but not feel overly pressured, which will increase the chances that sometime down the road she'll changer her mind and ask you to a dance or something.

Good luck man, it's really no big deal.

 

[TLSpartan]

Thanks for all the help guys. I will probably end up asking her in German( we dont do anywork anyway's

). Hopefully all goes well.

 

[jackb]

speak to her in english, she might think you aren't serious...

 

[TLSpartan]

I mean the class German

. Not the language. We are both going to a party on Friday, so I will probably ask then

 

[mthrnite]

Good luck Spartan! Be your own cool self and all will be well.
Let us know if you made a Love Connection.

 

[TLSpartan]

You would be a god if you resized that down to avatar size for me

 

[mthrnite]

 

[TLSpartan]

Yes. Thank you God

 

[TLSpartan]

Well, she said no :'( .. I am really sad but I will eventually get over it. She still wants to be friends,which is a good thing

. She said she wants to stay single. Which is fine by me, since she is a good friend to me and I just want her to be happy

 

[mthrnite]

Fish in the sea, lots of others there are.

Glad she was nice about it.

 

[dice]

Well, she said no :'( .. I am really sad but I will eventually get over it. She still wants to be friends,which is a good thing

. She said she wants to stay single. Which is fine by me, since she is a good friend to me and I just want her to be happy

don't worry about it man

(it's as simple as that)

 

[Duke_Jay]

omgosh you should trow pills in her drink then she wanna do anythin!

 

[bulletmark]

Well, she said no

Well you can at least console yourself with the satisfaction that you had a shot at it. Better that than to sit there still thinking about asking her. Some wise words from an old codger which I often recall "When I think back over my life, it's not the things I did that I regret - it's the things I didn't do"

 

[modshroom128]

She doesnt have a boyfriend.I talk to her lots in a couple classes. She is not married(we are both in high school

).Im 15 BTW. The last line in your post sorta got me though

.

im 15, and what your supposed to do (before you ask her out) is simply ask her if she is willing to perform oral sex on you... if she says yes, you got yourself a keeper... if she says no, see if asking for anal sex works.

good luck.