Hacking Scuse me, but wtf is wrong with my M3Real?

[An00bis]

So I ordered an M3DS Real off of KickGaming. Arrived today, with a gba expansion pack, rumble pack, SD reader, and of course DS card. Now I have a few problems.
1. When I put the M3 Card into my DS Lite, it slides down real slowly and I have to force it down. Pushing it down to get it out doesn't work either; I have to use a pair of tweezers. :|
2. The MicroSD card I have (which I previously used with my R4DS, fit perfectly) doesn't appear to be the right size for my M3 Card, yet it is exactly what the manufacturer prescribes. When I put the MicroSD into the M3, it just kind of falls down into it. Again, I have to use tweezers to get this out, too. It does work, however. I used the SYSTEM folder from their official site ( the Europe/USA one linked at the bottom http://www.m3adapter.com/SLOT-1_Series_M3DS-R.htm here).
3. I put a Soul Silver rom that was patched with Rudolph + English 4.5 patch on it, and into a folder called NDS. When I move to this folder, I can open it, and the logo for SS shows up. But when I press A on it, nothing happens. Touching it doesn't do anything either. Like it doesn't recognize it as an NDS file. :|

 

[ninchya]

Try using the dual boot system here http://gbatemp.net/index.php?showtopic=89197 i recently got my new M3 Real Bundle from kick gaming and i got no problems so far, it fits flush and it comes out easy and my previous micro sd from my dstt fits perfectly no to mention i ordered a 2nd one. Maybe you got a bad M3 Real?

 

[An00bis]

Rumblesigh, I'm 99% sure it's fine (since I ordered it from GBATemp's most recommended store, Kickgaming :

 

[Magmorph]

Most flash cards are harder to get out than a normal Ds card but you shouldn't have to pry it out. Your card may be bad.