Thank you, Masked Ranger, I will try that.
I appreciate your patience and the step-by-step. I never would have suspected that an .inf file was the driver, I was expecting a .dll file.
I will let you know if I am able to make this work.
UPDATE: I appear to have gotten it working.
NOTE: It does not recognize an Acekard...only legit carts, apparently...SO...you have to take your save off the legit cart to the PC...then use a card reader to get the savestate to the SD card in your Acekard.
YES!! That worked. Careful note that this saves .sav files to your PC. When you move them to your Acekard, you have to rename them so that they are .nds.sav
Got it done, though.
Now, here is hoping I can talk my friend thru it...he's way-serious helpless with this stuff...which is why I got this, so that I could try to help him.
I will make a note here about this...you HAVE to re-boot after you install the new driver and before you run the program. If you DON'T...it will look like your computer crashed, and it will re-boot.
Also, you have to run the program BEFORE putting the NDS Adapter into your USB port, or the program does not show up on the screen. If you DO start it while it is plugged in, you have to remove it, then plug it back in and you will be good to go. Note: this instruction ALSO applies to first-time use only. After that, it is no problem if it is plugged in when you start.
HUGE KUDOS AND THANKS TO THOSE WHO HELPED ME OUT WITH THIS!!
And everyone should note this adapter ONLY saves savestates, not the original program...you can't do that with this device. It is intended to back up your savestate info...so that you can move it to an Acekard, keep it safe, or upload it online somewhere.