Did you read the whole thread?
It's explained why I will get one and it's explained why I can not right now, it's also explained why this advice is not of much use to me right now.
I've built this pc, I build websites, I do graphics, I game and I write the odd snippet of code... I'm sure I can decide when I can get a new reader ....
But seriously thanks everyone, I guess there's nothing left then wait for christmas to pass so I can get a diff reader.
Maybe ill get yours reym
Edit -Case Closed-
Thanks for all the well meant advice, sorry for being sarcastic and annoyed at times.
If i could have gotten another reader (shops are closed for holidays here) on such short notice I would have given up sooner.
I'm off to gift wrap the R4 for tonight so I can't try anything anymore from this point on.
I've put everything on the r4 including a few things for her to try using the camera as the reader for the microSD, we'll see how it goes.
Thanks everyone.
ps. I'll try and hang around, be of some help to someone else