girl issues

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Oct 1, 2010

girl issues by DarkShinigami at 4:19 PM (930 Views / 0 Likes) 14 replies

  1. DarkShinigami
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    so i heard the girl i like is in a relationship by facebook and am unsure weather she just saying that or it's true so I've been wanting to ask her but i think if i do I'll be heart stricken. she knew i liked her too . i have been losing sleep over the last few days and having nightmares over this girl. so any advice appreciated. if it is true i think she might have been waiting for me to ask her ou(yeah im a pansy who couldn't) and someone beat me to her.
     
  2. elmoreas

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    Find out if she isn't hurry up and ask, if she is, chill wait and it will fail and then ask. And don't be so afraid the worst that could happen is she says no. TRUST ME life will go on. I know where your at, been there before. It gets better so no worries okay.
     
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    I mean, if she's taken. Just wait after she and guy she's going out with breaks up. Besides, there are other fishes in the sea.
     
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    If she breaks with him just to be with you, it's not good!!

    Because it means that she could do the same with you!!!

    You should look for a shy girl!! [​IMG]
     
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    tbh she is shy girl [​IMG]
     
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    If you like her but don't ask her out then what do you expect? Her to be miserable and alone her entire life until you work up the courage to talk to her?

    Like someone else said, it sounds like you are pretty young. She'll break up with the guy she is with soon and you can move in then if you still care.
     
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    Yeah bro [​IMG] you still young!! How old is she?
    '' In life we cannot have everything we want''
     
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    If you never ask her, how will you know the answer? Just ask her (don't put pressure on her though).
     
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    That's true [​IMG]
     
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    Ehm...talking to her would be cool...

    This really belongs in blogs, though.
     
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    just talk to her.

    if you don't you will regret it for a very, very long time...

    I've been down the road of regret. not. fun.
     
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    Imagine you got a girlfriend and a guy have the same thing like you... [​IMG] no good
     
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    But yeah, talk to her!! Don't be afraid because you have nothing to lose, remember when you were a sperm, you won the race! [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
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    D.E.N.N.I.S her, the S part is optional.
     
  15. Gore

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    do yourself a favor and don't freak out over a girl before you know what she's like in a relationship
    right now you think talking to her will be disastrous and you'll get rejected but is that even so bad?
    don't waste your time chasing her if she's never going to be interested, so i'd say talk to her as soon as you find out she's single (don't try to mess around with girls with boyfriends for your own sanity, it's really a lose-lose situation because she's probably not going to leave her boyfriend for you and if she does you know that the same thing could happen where she leaves you for someone else when you start to bore her)
    i've only just realized it isn't the end of the world if a girl isn't into you because you really do control how the world is around you, if someone doesn't want to be with you then you shouldn't want to be with them and that's pretty much the way to handle relationships. not to say it has to be perfect but being a typical nice guy and waiting around for her to come onto you first is only going to work if you're really attractive.
     

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