It is. Still need to clean up the reloading however. You can also reload the loader itself with an updating version from the SD(that's go.bin on the SD in the vid).
Oh haha. I did two things wrong. I had CMD and CLK switched and I think(wasnt sure) I had a bad solder point on my female connector bridging DAT0 and CLK.
It only took my 30 minutes lol. I bought a JST SH connector from here : https://www.sparkfun.com/products/10359 It already comes with a female end as well.
I wired the male one(already has wires on it) to the SD card(after cutting it shorter). I then took some ribbon cable and soldered that to...