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highkey getting tired of living life

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Wise man said, Casanova was rejected more times than the beginner has even tried.
Do you always give up the first time you fail? Did you give up on saving princess Peach after two lives? Did you give up on Pogeymans the first time you lost to Gary Oak? Did you ragequit the first time a Metroid sucked your brain out (and not in a good way)?

Yes?

Oh. Never mind then.
 
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BeanMKW said:
can't ever get a girlfriend and I've gotten rejected twice already. why so hard
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When I was opening doors and looking _away_ from women, or saying, "excuse me, ma'am, is it alright if I train in here? I can come back later if you want.' in athletic clothing covering everything except my hands and head, for some reason a lot of women became super-interested in me; I never thought it to be the case, but dressing _and_ behaving super modestly has caused many women in and out of the gyms to give me their numbers.



From what I understand, many women want to be around someone who treats them like they do not expect _anything_ in return; you are kind to be kind, not to "secure a date". So that's why those actions, which are sincere, are giving me the exact opposite issue; I'm celibate but a lot of gym women are _trying_ really hard, even trying to "accidentally bump into me/intentionally stretch and pose directly in front of me, facing opposite direction"; never suspected as a man that I am seen like a piece of steak among wolves, but the point is, sometimes the best way to have what you want...is to simply not want it at all.



Most women get reallt enamored by the idea that I dress very modestly at the gym and use manners, and that it's not an act. So...if you try that, as an actual part of your personality (and personalities are not static; they can change and grow!), you'd be surprised.



I get that online I act about as crazy as Sarge from red vs. blue; this is where I can "unhinge myself" so to speak, akin to a very frustrated Japanese employee saying, "forget this! I'm forced to be an emotionless static worker full time; I’m going to vent all of my emotions into this insane, over the top manga/anime I wrote that puts LCD users to shame!"; literally a mind dump of my frustrations in real life, but my advice here can help.



Women want to feel safe; they don't usually prefer a person who is there for the way they look versus actually being there for them as a person. In fact, that can even be a scare; how about if a future partner would run off? So, if you are loyal and a protector, you're there to make sure others are physically and also emotionally safe. Trust me, that is exactly why my main deterrent from going to the gym is "ugh...I'm going to have to divert my eyes about a kajillion times today as people keep intentionally walking right in front of me a few feet away, facing opposite, and start stretching; I hate this."
 
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